Problem that has never happened before..

[Blazin]

This girl I had strong feelings for before summer recently came back to the town I live in and of course I insisted we hangout in order to catch up. Within the first hour of seeing her things got intense, something I did really made her attracted to me. We started fooling around and this is when my problem comes into play.

If I see the foreplay keeps escalating I can get an erection but if the foreplay lasts another 5m or less without any additional excitement I will completely go flaccid again unless I'm either being orally aroused, or full penetration. This happened multiple times and eventually it got to the point where she would ask if she didn't turn me on, started calling me a player almost in a bad way. At one point she also asked what she could do to turn me on and I had no idea cause the only thing that gets enough dopamine flowing is some oral or sex.

The thing is, she turns me on more than any girl and It is really aggravating me that I cannot maintain a full erection during some foreplay. I'm not sure if it is from the nervous tension of being with a much more attractive girl that I previously have, or the overuse of pornography and masturbation.

Has this ever happened to any of you, what suggestions do you recommend, is this normal? Any feedback would be great, I will be online to check the replies throughout the day.

Many thanks in advance.

[Blazin]

Thanks for replying. Appreciate the support.

[Gordo]

Nope, this has never happened to me. Once I get erect it stays at level of firmness even if we stop for a bit. If pretty hard while still dressed, it will only get harder. We'd have to stop for 20 minutes or more for it to go soft.

For me, as soon as we start doing something, I'm excited and happy to be doing it, just get hornier by the moment. And the times we get interrupted for a half hour and lets say we even have to get dressed, all she has to do at that point is do almost nothing. Like start a back rub, not give me one, just start. Or run her hand up my thigh and it's back to very hard in 30 seconds.

I do know a guy who told me he's like you though. So it's not like you're the only one.

[PinkFloyd]

Well maybe you should try not to watch porn as much. This might be interfering some how. Being nervous could also be a large factor. Have you two ever gone all the way? This could help as well. (I'm not trying to promote underaged sex because idk how old you are.) (just an idea)

Best of luck - Rob :)

[Blazin]

Thanks for all the posts guys.

Here is why I am confused. With porn I almost get an immediate full hard on but on the other hand I don't when Im w/ this girl. This has never happened with any other girls, just this one and we have never gone all the way. I'm fairly positive it is just being nervous, since seeing her I have basically had butterflies in my stomach.