My friend

[Trickster]

My friend did something weird. When me and my 3 friends had a sleepover we were all about to go to sleep. I made it so we dont have to sleep close cuz of we all move when we sleep and well keep eachother up. 2 slept on the bed on opposite ends and the otehr slept on the end of the bed and i slept on the floor. Then the one on the end said he'd rather sleep on the floppr with me so he did. when he "thought" i was asleep he started touching me and rubbing up on me. then he whispered something but i couldnt hear him. is this hormones or what???:confused::confused:

[Dhills185]

well you would hope it was hormones otherwise i myself would be sorta worried

[tripletsrule]

I hope its hormones but you should talk to your friend about what happened and how you feel.

[Maverick]

No hormones isn't an excuse. You tell your friend not to touch you like that ever again.

[Gumleaf]

No hormones isn't an excuse. You tell your friend not to touch you like that ever again.

your right, hormones is no excuse. he should not do that to you unless you give him the ok to do so. that could be classed as assult.

[Crazysam]

That's a poor excuse you should have a talk with him and let him know that he shouldn't be doing this!

[Gavin]

talk to your friend and tell him to explain why he did that

[underoath12192]

yeah, hormones could have made him want to but geez, thats no self control to touch you like that. Make sure to talk to him about it.

[Trickster]

i did recently and he was very nervous about it. He said he was gay and he liked me that why he did that and he didnt want people to think less of him or do bad stuff 2 him cuz he was gay and he couldnt help it. I was creeped out and didnt believe much of it but i accepted his apology but what should i do i now?? Cuz i may be bi-curious but im not attracted to him.

[LateForTheSky]

Right this is a hard one I suggest (If you are not attracted to him) You don't have any sexual contact it will just give him false hope but u should let him know that u will support him and wont let anybody know etc. And finally don't pussy foot around him treat him as u always did try to not let the awkwardness get in the way he is your friend remember. Just be yourself, Support him and don't loss ur friendship.

[Gumleaf]

i did recently and he was very nervous about it. He said he was gay and he liked me that why he did that and he didnt want people to think less of him or do bad stuff 2 him cuz he was gay and he couldnt help it. I was creeped out and didnt believe much of it but i accepted his apology but what should i do i now?? Cuz i may be bi-curious but im not attracted to him.


you need to tell him that you are not sexually attracted to him and ask him not to do that to you again. hopefully if he knows where you stand then there shouldn't be any more problems.

[Trickster]

ok and i havent told anyone i still act the same around him cuz people will get ideas. He's still my friend though and i support him cuz he was probably really curious and such. I said to him i would have oral sex with him and all the non-sex stuff cuz im really curious as well and he's my friend so he'll be happy if i do it. Did i do the right thing?

[Gavin]

don't be pressured into having sex if you don't want to its your choice do what you feel is right and i'm sure you will make the right choice

[jdude]

so what did you do?

[weber]

ok and i havent told anyone i still act the same around him cuz people will get ideas. He's still my friend though and i support him cuz he was probably really curious and such. I said to him i would have oral sex with him and all the non-sex stuff cuz im really curious as well and he's my friend so he'll be happy if i do it. Did i do the right thing?

It's more the fact that he is your friend no matter what that you should treat him the same way. as all that with him, if it is the thing that you really want to happen, then let him know from the start how you feel and not ot get false hopes... all in all I think that you're gonna make the right choise, and whichever you make we have to respect it and support you.

[jdude]

yup

[Trickster]

Im not really pressured more of curious i want to have oral sex to experiment. Cuz many say it better to first try it with a friend other then a stranger. jdude i didnt do anything yet he agreed that he would wait for my answer. Yet i wanna kno what other opinions are on this and dont worry i will be he's friend no matter what even if he was crippled oor officaly retarted he;s my friend end of story. what do think i should do now???

[Maverick]

what do think i should do now???
We don't allow any encouragement of sexual activity or experimentation on this site period. If that's what your looking for I'll be forced to close this thread.

[Camazotz]

Theres no excuse for abuse. Tell him to not touch you EVER again, but hormones probably was the major cause.

[Gumleaf]

ok and i havent told anyone i still act the same around him cuz people will get ideas. He's still my friend though and i support him cuz he was probably really curious and such. I said to him i would have oral sex with him and all the non-sex stuff cuz im really curious as well and he's my friend so he'll be happy if i do it. Did i do the right thing?


unless you are certain that you want to do it, then don't feel preasured. if he is a friend, despite how curious he is, he should not preasure you into anything.

[MikeKnowsYou]

My friend told me this exact thing, i think it's normal, but if i were u, i would try talking to him and ask him if he is thinking the gay road or what...JUST DONT MAKE HIM THINK U ARE MAD AT HIM...

[LateForTheSky]

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I said no encouragement

Anthony

[Maverick]

Since this is turning into encourgement I'm closing this thread.