bond3108
August 13th, 2012, 03:29 PM
I'm seventeen and still a virgin, although I have fingered a girl (hands down panties). I've done a lot more with a boy in the past but that was just experimentation, and before I could come. Anyway, because I'm a virgin I'm slightly desperate for sex, but I'm also concerned that when i do actually have sex with someone that I care about, i will only last a couple of minutes and they will think I'm rubbish. I have a female best friend who is 23 and I am very close to but only really as friends. She is single and I don't think she's been with anyone for a long time. I wondered whether I should ask her if she was to be 'friends with benefits' in as far as we can both be relieved sexually, and I can get experience before I did it with someone I loved and get the whole awkwardness of losing my v out of the way. I was just unsure of losing my v to someone I didn't love, however i also thought it would be good with someone I trust for the first time, so they treat me well and teach me the ways. Do you think that would be a good idea? If so how should I approach her about it? Cheers!