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xXJust Jump ItXx
August 13th, 2012, 12:56 AM
I finally quit cutting cause of my girlfriend and its been 3 weeks I think and tonight after extreme urges to cut and freaking out and having a absolute break down it feels I ended up cutting -_- I really hate this and everything going on right now... I cant stand it and I really cant go back to cutting!

VictoriaGotaSecret
August 13th, 2012, 07:38 PM
dont cut, you made it really far so it isnt worth it. keep your head up and keep pushing to quit!

CyanideGoodnight
August 13th, 2012, 09:06 PM
Honey one slip doesn't make you "back into it" Trust me it's gonna take a LOT of slips before you get to where you wanna go. Don't beat yourself up over it <3 Just keep going, and eventually you'll make it

December
August 13th, 2012, 10:18 PM
Hang in there, I know it is really difficult sometimes because it can feel like there is no other alternative, but try not to let this one slip define your future. There may be more slip ups to come, but you just have to push past them with the mindset that soon you'll be free. Its a long road to recovery, but you can do this :)

xXJust Jump ItXx
August 14th, 2012, 08:22 PM
Hang in there, I know it is really difficult sometimes because it can feel like there is no other alternative, but try not to let this one slip define your future. There may be more slip ups to come, but you just have to push past them with the mindset that soon you'll be free. Its a long road to recovery, but you can do this :)

Honey one slip doesn't make you "back into it" Trust me it's gonna take a LOT of slips before you get to where you wanna go. Don't beat yourself up over it <3 Just keep going, and eventually you'll make it

Thanks girls... Just the problem is my girlfriend with the stress of me cutting was pushing her to her breaking point. She literally wasnt sure how much of it she could take of it and why slipping is a big issue cause when I stopped cutting it helped her alot with the stress but when I slipping it pushes things and alot of slips and her now back to school and everything... its a bad mix. I care about her so much and I dont wanna see something bad happen to her cause of my cutting... I hate I was cutting and I dont wanna get back into it!

December
August 14th, 2012, 10:04 PM
I have to say, I was in quite the similar situation with this guy I dated for over two years. We both were self harmers though, and tried to stop for each other, and I know that it hurts to hurt someone and conversely how it is to watch someone self destruct. However, it did help me to stop for awhile, so if focusing on that is what really helps you, then good luck :). While I would normally say you need to get well for yourself and not for anyone else, it definitely sounds like right now, she might need you to be strong for her too, which is a lot to take on especially if you're both going through a lot right now. Try and hang in there, but also, work at solving the problems causing you to self harm and whatever she is going through, so you both can be well again. I wish you all the best, you can do this :)