too close for comfort?

[cpkid09]

i have this friend and i sleep over at his house a lot. i have seen his dick a bunch of times because he purposely shows me. i really think he is hot and he has a really nice dick. he has touched my dick outside of my pants and has rubbed my nipples jokingly but i got hard. also i have seen his dick hard a few times and he even jerked off a little bit. i wanna do stuff with him, but I'm scared that he will freak out. what should i do?

[Mightybear]

I had this same problem but my friend was not a forward so I really can't help.

[Shiny]

He might be giving you some signals. Talk to him about it and see where you go.

[Aaron Y]

try talk to him and ask him why is he making so many action..i suppose he would not freak out since he has touched you at the 1st place.

[War-Is-Real]

Another homophobic fear thread.
YOU'RE TEENS! TEENS EXPIRIMENT!
There is nothing wrong with it.

[Cicero]

Try to say something in a joking sounding way, like next time he starts jerking off, say "Need help?". You could maybe even say (next time he does something like that) "Wanna jerk off?", but I warn you, say it in a joking way, say it like your joking. So then if he says "Sure", you can say "Really?", so then if he says sure again. That tells you he wants to and if he says "No, I was jk". Then you can say, "ok good haha". So that could give you a little wiggle room incase of either situation.

Another homophobic fear thread.
YOU'RE TEENS! TEENS EXPIRIMENT!
There is nothing wrong with it.
Seriously? I do not see how this thread is homophobic at all. He's worried because it could ruin his friendship, and everyone else could find out. Damn, think about your answer.

[War-Is-Real]

Seriously? I do not see how this thread is homophobic at all. He's worried because it could ruin his friendship, and everyone else could find out. Damn, think about your answer.
He is obviously afraid of sounding gay and is in some fear of having a gay friend.
Like dafuq. Only you.

[Cicero]

He is obviously afraid of sounding gay and is in some fear of having a gay friend.
Like dafuq. Only you.

I didnt understand what you said. Hes not afraid he wants to experiment with his friend, and hes asking how he can mention it.

[JimmyIsNowAMan]

Try to say something in a joking sounding way, like next time he starts jerking off, say "Need help?". You could maybe even say (next time he does something like that) "Wanna jerk off?", but I warn you, say it in a joking way, say it like your joking. So then if he says "Sure", you can say "Really?", so then if he says sure again. That tells you he wants to and if he says "No, I was jk". Then you can say, "ok good haha". So that could give you a little wiggle room incase of either situation.


Seriously? I do not see how this thread is homophobic at all. He's worried because it could ruin his friendship, and everyone else could find out. Damn, think about your answer.

This sounds like great advice. You will find out for sure if he is interested in playing around with you and not cause any embarassment. I say, go for it.

[Pyro99]

It depends.Are you both straight and you just want to experiment, or are you into him ?

[alphus]

Okay you're a teen and your hormones are making you go crazy! You could just ask him jokingly if he'd like to touch your penis and if he freaks out be like "DUDE I was only joking chill out" but if he's actually interested and asks if you're serious just play along and say something like "Yeh man I'm really serious"? Best case scenario you'll hit the jackpot and do stuff with him, worst case he'll tell you to stop being weird in which case you can say "Why do you keep showing me your dick then"? Hope this helps :)

[Philip97]

Copy what he does eg when he gets dick out u do same

[yerman]

i'd say put on some porn.. put your hands down your pants and see what happens

[OregonStateDude]

He might be giving you some signals. Talk to him about it and see where you go.

Exactly. Maybe he's gay or bi, maybe he's not. But he's obviously interested, otherwise he wouldn't keep whipping out his dick.

[Green5656]

Next time your with him casually get out or turn on porn and it should turn on the mood and just see were it goes from there.

[NeutraltEAm4za]

Well it sounds to me that he is in the same boat as you. He probably wants to experiment as well but just doesnt know how to say it. I would think that he would be fine if you ask him, in fact by the sounds of it, he would probably be really excited to try something. Just talk to him about it sometime, like at a sleepover with him and see what he says. Good luck. :)

[cpkid09]

thanks so much guys for the advice. you really helped. I'm gonna try all the stuff u said next time we r in his bedroom lol

[Tonebone88]

If he is always very open around you as you say he is, he might want to experiment as well. You said he has jerked off a bit in front of you and has been feeling your cock and your body. I think that means he want something to happen. Maybe you should try touching HIM for once and tell him you want to try some stuff. It seems like he's open to it.

[Ian10]

Good friendship

[hotteengeek97]

my best friend was like that for a while and than he asked me if i wanted to do some stuff with him and i said yes this was about a year ago and we have had alot of fun bonding.

[Sean4U]

Like a few have said, he is probably giving you signals...and since you have some desires I would talk to him and see what he wants to do....if anything...it is perfectly normal to want to fool around and experiment, part of being a teen

[Michael Anthony]

i think he's telling you that he's interested.
do stuff with him and see how it goes

[garrettu]

It won't hurt to ask

[Michigan48111]

sounds like with everything you guys have already done that he kinda wants to do it too so I think you should just go for it the next chance you get.

[Jmac]

Go for it it sounds like he wants it too just don't let it hurt you and him

[Jtyler]

Maybe he wants To. I have a friend just like yours I know hoy you feel

[Lovesbeingnaked]

Sounds like he's strongly hinting around.

Next time he gets a little touchy get him to play the nervous game start off slow and eventually make your way to under his pants and see if that works. It worked for me once.

[whippowil]

Experimentation is perfectly normal. A lot of teenagers do it. Your hormones are raging and sexual contact regardless of gender feels good. Asking how to initiate this is against the rules, however. Just casually bring up experimentation one night and if he reacts badly, play it off as a joke.

[Sudds3]

Well first experimenting is normal, but you can't ask how do do it on here...just saying. So thats about it.

[Moxacho]

He might be giving you some signals. Talk to him about it and see where you go.

This and also I don't think so that is too close for comfort,but you should speak with your friend.

[fast8]

yea just joke around with him about doing something he see what he says

[dan8854]

i say play truth and dare and see how far it goes!

[tide]

if he does all of that to you already then he may want to do something with you. idk just bring it up to him one day when you guys are alone or something

[acurasrock]

I agree.....If your friend is doing and saying all this stuff, then he probably wants to experiment or something. Take him up on the offer if that's what ya want!

[nino51300]

@ dan, I'm not sure about the rule here, but generally posting in a thread more Ghana 30 days old is grave digging....

[ThatGuy69]

Well it sounds like you both keep trying to get stuff started next time he gets it out starting wanking it

[Jmann]

Joke with him about it and ply your actions smooth. usually that end up in your favors if he is doing the stuff that he is doing. make sure you joking with him when it is in the moment and put yourself out there too

[Troy35216]

i have this friend and i sleep over at his house a lot. i have seen his dick a bunch of times because he purposely shows me. i really think he is hot and he has a really nice dick. he has touched my dick outside of my pants and has rubbed my nipples jokingly but i got hard. also i have seen his dick hard a few times and he even jerked off a little bit. i wanna do stuff with him, but I'm scared that he will freak out. what should i do?
okay let's see.
he has flashed you many times.
he has groped you outside your pants
he's felt up your chest/nipples
he's jerked off in front of you--but only a little bit, kinda as if he stopped cuz no one else joined him?

he has done all of that and your scared it will freak him out if you do stuff with him? dude he's BEGGING to do stuff with YOU! take him up on it! i should be so lucky to have your problem. ;)