Need help!

[davidoff]

I'm straight but when I'm horny, I think about giving and receiving a hj/bj. Today i got an offer to experiment with this boy.
I don't know him very well (know him from Msn), but he's an handsome guy and he really want to experiment with me (even anal if I want to!)
Then you should think: great! finally found somebody! But when I'm not horny, I don't like the thought to jerk/suck a boy's dick..
And I don't now if this boy has any sexual experience before, so I don't know if he has got any STD...
I don't know really what to do. Should I use this opportunity? Because I wanted to do this for so long. I
don't think I'll regret it, but i will if i get a STD... What should i do???
Thanks!

[IAMWILL]

Well I'm not sure if you have ever even seen him in person, but if you haven't I'd wait AT LEAST until you've seen the guy to make sure he is who he says he is and not some pedophile. Also I wouldn't just meet up just to experiment, if you do want to meet the guy maybe you should start by just hanging out doing normal stuff at first, like watching a movie or playing some sport.

Also have you thought about how you will meet up with him? Does he live near you? Can you get away with meeting him without your parents wondering who your newfound friend is?

Whatever you guys decide to do from there is up to you, but I wouldn't just jump straight into it.

[frankrocky]

If you don't know him and his history then stay away. It's not worth the risk.

[justin123]

i would ask him if he has done it before and use comdoms if ur going to. i would go for it. sounds fun.

[Nellerin]

Do not do it. Doing that stuff by meeting someone over the internet is simply dangerous, it may sound fun but it is very very risky.

[davidoff]

Well I'm not sure if you have ever even seen him in person, but if you haven't I'd wait AT LEAST until you've seen the guy to make sure he is who he says he is and not some pedophile. Also I wouldn't just meet up just to experiment, if you do want to meet the guy maybe you should start by just hanging out doing normal stuff at first, like watching a movie or playing some sport.

Also have you thought about how you will meet up with him? Does he live near you? Can you get away with meeting him without your parents wondering who your newfound friend is?

Whatever you guys decide to do from there is up to you, but I wouldn't just jump straight into it.

maybe I should meet him at least once.. but we both don't wanna have a 'normal' friendship, we only want to use each other (friends for benefits..)
And I can meet him without any problems!

[Nellerin]

maybe I should meet him at least once.. but we both don't wanna have a 'normal' friendship, we only want to use each other (friends for benefits..)
And I can meet him without any problems!

You do realize that 90% of the time this happens you will meet him and get kidnapped, killed, rapped, anything. Right?

[Pyro99]

I really want to experiment too, but only with my best friend.Even though, if im horny id want to do it with someone i mt online but only if his 12-16 and handsome.The bad thing is that even though I met a guy here on VT who whod like to experiment with me, he lives in america and i live in greece.

[gig-guy]

how old r u? How old is he?
but i wouldnt do it if i where you...

[davidoff]

how old r u? How old is he?
but i wouldnt do it if i where you...

We're both 16
But I think you're right. I'm not gonna do this with a stranger, maybe in the future with a good friend, we'll see. Thanks for the help!

[JimmyIsNowAMan]

Meeting a stranger for the first time for sex is dangerous. Have you skyped with him to at least that he's not some old perv or pedo? If you need to experiment, do it with friends you can trust.

[Sean4U]

We're both 16
But I think you're right. I'm not gonna do this with a stranger, maybe in the future with a good friend, we'll see. Thanks for the help!

Think you made a wise choice David, since he is a stranger, you don't know him at all....maybe if you meet ....just hang for awhile and become friends, maybe something might happen.....just don't rush into it cause your hormones are going crazy....when you do do this with a friend it will be a lot better believe me....nothing wrong with some experimentation just be smart about it and I think you have thought it out so far....keep it up like you are now...

[pioneers73]

just dont do it u dont know the guy and he could have some friends that could come and take u and kill u

[thaynjr17]

That just looks like trouble waiting to happen. Wait till you find a good friend

[ExhibitG]

i'm with everybody else. don't meet people online like this. it's very dangerous.

[alphus]

Don't jump into it and be careful of the risk of paedophilia obviously! If you know he's not one then by all means give it a go! I experimented with a close friend of mine and we didn't regret it and we're still good straight friends :) so good luck!

[Ian10]

Go for it

[sparta]

You do realize that 90% of the time this happens you will meet him and get kidnapped, killed, rapped, anything. Right?

This stat is completely unfounded. However, the basis is correct. Hooking up with somebody over the internet, unless it's through a validated dating website, is dangerous. I don't know if there's a 90% chance of you getting kidnapped, killed ... etc. but it's certainly higher than it would be if you'd known this person before.

A good idea if you're considering this is to do a few "tests" first - Talk to him on skype, make sure you see HIM moving around, get him to wave. Make sure you know what he looks like. Meet him in person, in a public location - say for coffee, or lunch, or a movie. etc.

If you want to be friends with benefits that's fine (not my cuppa tea, but whatever floats your boat!), but get to know him at least enough to be safe.

[davidoff]

Hey guys the situation changed a lil bit now:
I've seen him on skype and let him do some tests, so I knew he must be real and I met
him yesterday. We can get along with each other pretty well! and i've got a good feeling
about it now.. what do you think?? :confused:

[garrettu]

You should really get to know him better and ask him if he has had a sexual experience, and use a condom

[jaycee.broham]

Just make him wear a condom when he goes deep in your ass

[appel1234]

i think that if u feelconfortable doing that stuff with him when ur horny that go ahead i feel the same way when im horny just have a good time

[Moxacho]

It's totally your choose,you have to experience everything in life.

[NotASpyingRent]

I'm straight but when I'm horny, I think about giving and receiving a hj/bj. Today i got an offer to experiment with this boy.
I don't know him very well (know him from Msn), but he's an handsome guy and he really want to experiment with me (even anal if I want to!)
Then you should think: great! finally found somebody! But when I'm not horny, I don't like the thought to jerk/suck a boy's dick..
And I don't now if this boy has any sexual experience before, so I don't know if he has got any STD...
I don't know really what to do. Should I use this opportunity? Because I wanted to do this for so long. I
don't think I'll regret it, but i will if i get a STD... What should i do???
Thanks!

I'm not so glad that you don't know the person. There is alot of risks that come with that. STD's are probably the biggest problem here. Because you don't know the person, you have no idea if they have been tested, whether they have already contracted an STD, or may have contracted one. I would NOT DO IT. It is TOO RISKY. SERIOUSLY. Also, don't bother with anal. I hear it isn't that exiting.

If you decide to ignore what I said, then so help me god. STD's are not something to fool around with. Infections can range from annoying to life threatening. If you contract AIDS for example, your whole immune system can fail and you will die (eventually). Plain and simple. And you'll totally regret this.

The CDC has a useful page that deals with STD's.

http://www.cdc.gov/std/

[Machinegun]

I´m not sure..but I think u should wait a while : )

[JimmyIsNowAMan]

Do not do it. Doing that stuff by meeting someone over the internet is simply dangerous, it may sound fun but it is very very risky.
Makes a lot of sense. Don't take the risk.

[CranberryBridge]

maybe I should meet him at least once.. but we both don't wanna have a 'normal' friendship, we only want to use each other (friends for benefits..)
And I can meet him without any problems!

Yes, you always meet someone off the internet first before you do anything at all. You might want to bring one of your friends, just in case you need back up if stuff gets hairy.

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[gig-guy]

did you ever do it???

[BakeBake]

Do it, it seems like it is a once in a life time opportunity, but ask him if he has ever had sex before, but use a condom and have fun. Also you think it is cool when you are horny because you are stimulated, same thing happens to me. You are not alone! (:

[VirtualGuy012]

If your going to you really have to watch. Some people aren't who they say they are

[Cavroche]

So, what happened? Did you experiment as you wanted?

[showoffboy]

there are safe things u can do like hj and mutual jo. u could make it clear to him u dont want to go too far. and def it u do decide to go farther and do anal, make sure u guys use condoms to protect u from stds.

[NSoKShannon]

If you want to, do it. I would! Just make sure that you use condoms. Have fun! :)

[Steve Hala]

I would say dont, i am gay and have been there where you want to just go out and try it...but it is not worth trying if you dont know the other person and dont know if they have an STI (STI=STD they just changed the name)

[ThatGuy69]

I think you should do it, I did it is great fun and a real stress relief