Friend Trouble

[Litwick]

Okay so I have a guy best friend and usually we are all good but lately I can't even stand him and it is borderline hate. I see him texting me and I want to curse him out and kill him for no reason! This has been going on for 2 weeks.

We have had issues in the past and I immediately forgave him but now unprovoked I just hate him almost. My girl best friend tells me he deserves it for the way he has treated me in the past and doesn't really help besides telling me it's okay to be mad and that it's all bottled up emotions. But I really don't want to lose him despite the fact I can't stand his name even being around me without wanting to kill.

My best friends are my only friends (not a complaint just a fact) and I don't want to lose anyone. How do I not hate him anymore???

And if it is relevant: he has kissed me twice without my consent, called me at 2 am to help him more than once, chose his girlfriend who cheated on him over me, slapped me, borrowed lots of money and gotten mad at me when ever I bring up a possible fault he has.

[lou lou]

i was in the exact same spot as you all I did was talked to him and told him how I felt and for our friendship its still perfect he teats me a lot better now than he ever did .

[Guillermo]

You really do need to talk with him. Having all this bottled up hatred and anger towards him isn't healthy in a friendship or any other relationship for that matter. Tell him how you feel. He should care about how you feel. If he doesn't though, then maybe you should re-evaluate your friendship with him. You're a great friend to him, it seems, and he should be one in return. Just know that there are other people out there if it doesn't work out. But if he understands your feelings and changes, then it should be fine.

[Jabbawocke]

o-o For no reason at all? Wdf. Are you on your period or something? Joke.
Ok uuhhhhh. In your last sentence, seems like he's a douche to you. Sooo yeah, talk to him about it. ask him not to be such a douche. It will be a good way to vent your anger, and dont think about all that crap, itll affect your mental health. You may have a right to be angry, but you should not be that angry.

[Alliegator]

I think you deserve better friends, if talking with him doesn't solve it its not worth it.

[Sleepy Raisin]

He doesnt seem like a very good guy.. But i would just vent or talk to him about it. Or both

[dontfiguremeout]

Dude, you really need to talk to him! Tell him all the stuff that bothers you that he does! And now for the killing thing, you guys just need some time of isolation from each other. When you tell him, tell him you need some time alone for as long as you want. So yeah it will be hard for him not to text you or anything, but you need to tell him not to text you, till you text him when you are ready. But I just think you need some time to rethink and stuff. I did this with my best friend after a fight. She needed some time to herself, and I just decided not to text her or anything till she actually came back to me. But yeah, make sure you address to him what you don't like about him, and let him tell you stuff that you do that ticks him off. And then take sometime away from each other.

[Burn007]

Fuck him off...Things he did to u are not cool....Do whatever u feel like