This ain't good! I could be in serious trouble here! Help?!?

[Rosco G]

Last week, before I joined VT, I found out that my girlfriend of a year and a half might be pregnant. That ain't the problem, I ain't saying I'm ready to be a daddy but I'm not too concerned because, what are the chances?
Anyhow...
The problem is, I been having thought about my ex-fiance a lot lately. I DID love her and I guess part of me still does but, I love my girlfriend, I do. I've dated my ex-fiance a few times, I think the reason I'm having these feeling is because she's the first girl I ever really loved and the first girl I ever had sex with. Could that be it? Has anyone else had this problem? I am not willing to give up my girlfriend over stupid, pent-up feelings, I won't.
What if I do become a daddy? She needs me. I need her.
Help?

[LouBerry]

What are the chances? There is a big chance. Every time you've had sex, there is a chance you knocked her up. Stop thinking about that other girl. You owe it to the girl that might be carrying your child.

[lou lou]

I have not been in this postion but my best friends have he did not use a condom that one time and that one time it turn out she got pregnat ( he is 16 and she is 15) it scared the shit out of all of us I started crying i was not ready for my best friends to have a kid and then I find out I'm going to be the godmother to their kid. I mean I'm happy but scared for them I don't know what they are going to do. So yeah things could get worst than your girlfriend getting pregnant and having thought about another girl( yeah and my friend she was pregnant before to but lost that one) yeah some scary shit so I'm a godmother at 15 almost 16. Yay!! :(

[West Coast Sheriff]

U got ur gf pregnant and she needs you , LouBerry said it

[FreeFall]

What are the chances? Are you kidding me? If she has the baby, she's going to need you. If she looses the baby, she's going to need you more than if it were born! And you're wondering about your ex.

I understand, you never really forgot the first love. But it goes away and is gone. She's an ex. Leave her at that, you've moved on obviously and are needed by the one you're with.

Also, you're a baby daddy when you're not with the mother. When you are with her, you're a father and her significant other (ie boyfriend,fiance, husband) You do what fathers do and you help/take care of the mother, the woman you love, and your child.