Confused (Need Help)

[Brice]

I love to sing. I'm a bit more in touch with my feminine side thn most others, and have been teased about being gay since second grade (I'm now in the 8th). Forever I've fought against the idea that I might be gay. I'm physically attracted to guys. The problem is that I can't figure out if I'm emotionally attracted. I feel love for people all the same. I could be friends with anyone and think I'm in love with them. I don't really want to marry a guy or anything but I'm confused. Please help me!

[The Chameleon]

It must be hard but try not to let the gay jokes bother you, also if your gay your gay you could also be bi.

[lou lou]

Well just tell the people to stop making fun of you and back off. And if they dont go and talk to some one.

[West Coast Sheriff]

U might b bi or panasexual.

[Brice]

Well, I probably should have put this in the thread, but the thing is, I don't want to be gay or bi (even though I have nothing against people who are). That's 1 of my main reasons for confusion.

[Heavyrain4life]

Well, I probably should have put this in the thread, but the thing is, I don't want to be gay or bi (even though I have nothing against people who are). That's 1 of my main reasons for confusion.

And why not? Theres nothing wrong with being gay or bi, and you should embrace it, regardless of what others think.

[Lovesbeingnaked]

There's nothing wrong with being gay but you could just be slightly effeminate.


Are you physically attracted to girls to? Could you imagine being in a relationship with a guy?

Nobody is 100 percent one way or the other. A guy can be completely heterosexual and still notice when another guy is attractive. Just like a gay man can notice when a girl is pretty.

[Brice]

There's nothing wrong with being gay but you could just be slightly effeminate.


Are you physically attracted to girls to? Could you imagine being in a relationship with a guy?

Nobody is 100 percent one way or the other. A guy can be completely heterosexual and still notice when another guy is attractive. Just like a gay man can notice when a girl is pretty.

I can't imagine myself in a serious relationship with a guy. If I just dated one it'd be awkward and I wouldn't know what to do with it.

[Lovesbeingnaked]

^ Then you're probably straight.


But again are you attracted to girls?

[Brice]

Yeah.

[TrueAlyn]

If you like girls emotionally ( you love them) and you wwant a girl physically ( girl+naked= sex thoughts) then you can be in a relationship with a girl that's fulfulling. However, if you are attracted to guys ( they are nice to fantasize about. ooh, back on topic..) or if you aren't physically drawn to girls, and you can come to terms with the fact that having a rellationship and being in bed with the right guy could be the best event of your life, then you can be a happy adult who is in a relationship with a man :) If it really bugs you that everything the assholes have said to you in regards to the fact you are not as neanderthalean as they are, then remove any labels that you are uncomfortable with. Don't like partner, say boyfriend. Don't like sex-with-a-guy, say finding-emotional-attachment-and-giving-large-amounts-of-joy-to-my-love :). No one can make you not be true to who you are, that power is only a curse you carry..

[Heavyrain4life]

If you like girls emotionally ( you love them) and you wwant a girl physically ( girl+naked= sex thoughts) then you can be in a relationship with a girl that's fulfulling. However, if you are attracted to guys ( they are nice to fantasize about. ooh, back on topic..) or if you aren't physically drawn to girls, and you can come to terms with the fact that having a rellationship and being in bed with the right guy could be the best event of your life, then you can be a happy adult who is in a relationship with a man :) If it really bugs you that everything the assholes have said to you in regards to the fact you are not as neanderthalean as they are, then remove any labels that you are uncomfortable with. Don't like partner, say boyfriend. Don't like sex-with-a-guy, say finding-emotional-attachment-and-giving-large-amounts-of-joy-to-my-love :). No one can make you not be true to who you are, that power is only a curse you carry..

....... What he said.