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jessygurl09
August 9th, 2012, 07:43 PM
just needed to vent a bit guyss

unless its been you you wont understand... 99% of people wont. they wont get why you wanna lay in bed all day.. why you have the urge to cut, why your wrists,legs, arms, etc. itch when you get upset... and i know my mom is trying to help, but its starting to hurt and get annoying that she keeps saying things to me about it... she knows that im depressed and have been for a while but every day she gets on me about being "lazy"and not social enough and that i need to quit sleeping so much... and it hurts.. idk how to tell her but it does...

bigfoot
August 9th, 2012, 08:04 PM
i understand what you're going through.it'll get better.

workingatperfect
August 9th, 2012, 09:37 PM
I know how you feel. My mom gets on my back about being lazy too, but it's not just that I'm lazy, and for some reason she can't see that.
I hope things get better for you :)

jessygurl09
August 10th, 2012, 08:07 PM
thanks guys(:

December
August 10th, 2012, 11:22 PM
Try not to let your mom get to you, she just maybe doesn't understand and thats okay, she hasn't been where you are so you can't really expect her to. Maybe in some strange way she thinks she is helping you by "encouraging" you to do all those things. But I understand where you are, and it will get better I think. Hang in there, and if you ever need to talk you can always message me or any of us. I hope that things get better for you soon :)

Perfectly Flawed
August 10th, 2012, 11:37 PM
I know exactly how you feel. Itching your body all over and sleeping all day until your parents get mad at you for not doing things... It sucks, but you just have to talk to people who know what it's like sometimes.

jessygurl09
August 11th, 2012, 07:03 PM
Try not to let your mom get to you, she just maybe doesn't understand and thats okay, she hasn't been where you are so you can't really expect her to. Maybe in some strange way she thinks she is helping you by "encouraging" you to do all those things. But I understand where you are, and it will get better I think. Hang in there, and if you ever need to talk you can always message me or any of us. I hope that things get better for you soon :)

maybe she does.. thanks(:

I know exactly how you feel. Itching your body all over and sleeping all day until your parents get mad at you for not doing things... It sucks, but you just have to talk to people who know what it's like sometimes.

yeah, ive been trying too. little by little hah. and thanks(:

StoneColdNicky
August 11th, 2012, 08:23 PM
That is a good entry, and a good point. When you know someone in that situation, and you've never felt like that yourself, you don't understand it. I know I don't, and when I had a friend in a similar situation, I kept wanting to just tell her to snap out of it, see how fine things really are. In a way it was frustrating, being unable to help.