discovering

[RCT109]

after u discovered u werent straight
how long did it take you to come to terms with it

the reason I ask is because i just discovered it last night when i was talking with my friend who is also bi

im having a hard time coming to turms with it. my friend and i make jokes about it and everything but its still hard for me

so how long did it take you to come to terms with it

thanks
shawn


also im 17

[norcaldude18]

Hey shawn, I know how you feel. It was pretty hard for me to come to terms with not being straight also. It actually took me a while to come to terms with it. Id say it took me several years to finally accept myself. After a while, you'll feel more comfortable about it.

[RCT109]

Hey shawn, I know how you feel. It was pretty hard for me to come to terms with not being straight also. It actually took me a while to come to terms with it. Id say it took me several years to finally accept myself. After a while, you'll feel more comfortable about it.


thanks shane
Ive told a good friend of mine and she was cool with it and told me if i ever need to talk about anything to tell her but idk

[lou lou]

well I'm bi and when I can in terms of it, it was with my two bestfriends ( girl and boy) and I really liked them both so yeah I was very confused at the time to

[caden048]

it will take a bit but it helps when you have supportive friends who accept it and when you talk to them you will actually become more comfortable to talking about it and accepting it...... took me two years to realize this

[disassociation2016]

Personally I don't know when I found out or came to terms, but thanks to my Google web search history I've been riding the rainbow train since I was 11. That reminds me. Google keeps to much information. Kinda creepy.

[Noirtier]

Honestly? It took me like 4 years to really come to terms with it and accept the fact that I'm gay. I realized it fairly early but didn't want to believe it. Everyone accepts it at a different rate though. I know it can be hard accepting it and coming to terms with it. It is for a lot of people. You're not alone hun.

[Kitty Purry]

For me I knew for sure I was gay or at least bi at around 12. Finally came to terms with it and accepted it at around 13. And came out to everybody freshman year :) .

[LatinaVivit]

Gosh maybe 5 months? I went through this whole 'bisexual' phase - which, of course I kept to myself - but then I'm like, "Hmm, I like boys and I only think girls are 'pretty'. I could see myself with them, but I know I wouldn't ever be happy." This was at the beginning of my freshman year of high school, so two years ago this month.

[RCT109]

thanks its helped alot

i have come to terms with it in a short time

I think because my firnd the first one i came out to and I make jokes about us both being bi

and i only really think about it when i get agraveted or upset