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Burn007
August 9th, 2012, 05:41 PM
Ok this is tough one....
I had a big verbal fight with BFF of the girl i liked and now she dosnt want to speak with me(girl i like) and with that i had a little fight with her.....I didnt screwed up really...they just started to screw with me and i just fuc*ed them off....I apologized to her and said how its my fault and i didnt want to end this that way....She just said it dosnt look like that and afterwards i never spoke with her....

Things were almost done with 2 of us i asked her out and all but the the stupid BFF had to messed everything up......(I was 100% sure she likes me and all)

So know i need a good advice how to win her back...i just need a good start i can handle everything after as it happens(im best at it :D)

I thought i go to her town and just have a 1 on 1 conversation with her to say im sorry and explain why i got mad and all....

Now i need opinion of both guys and girls....

Edit : We go to same school and school trip is in October (2 days) so i can let her cool down a bit and do something then....
GUYS what would u do?
and
GIRLS what kind of apology would u take in that situation

FreeFall
August 9th, 2012, 11:39 PM
First, your BFF doesn't sound like that fantastic a friend to purposely mess everything up.

Second, I'm not sure what happened but if she accepted your BFF's advances, if any were made, or believed him over you, do you truly want a girl like that back?

Well I agree your best bet would to just sit her down, and explain yourself after she has cooled off. Don't tell BFF, don't invite BFF, don't let him know you intend to even fix anything with her just keep him in the dark about your plan.

West Coast Sheriff
August 9th, 2012, 11:46 PM
Ask the girl u like 2 give u second chance, ask 2 b friends

Burn007
August 10th, 2012, 05:39 AM
Not my BFF her BFF.....

Kirsi
August 10th, 2012, 08:24 AM
I think you already know what you should do. Just talk to her alone when you have the chance and explain to her why you got upset and apologize if necessary. Then tell her that you still like her and want to be with her and if she says no ask if you could at least still be friends (that way you might still get another chance later on if you want it). If she still doesn't want to talk to you after all that you need to either give her more time (be nice to her and show her how sorry you are) or you need to let her go and move on.

Burn007
August 10th, 2012, 08:52 AM
I think you already know what you should do. Just talk to her alone when you have the chance and explain to her why you got upset and apologize if necessary. Then tell her that you still like her and want to be with her and if she says no ask if you could at least still be friends (that way you might still get another chance later on if you want it). If she still doesn't want to talk to you after all that you need to either give her more time (be nice to her and show her how sorry you are) or you need to let her go and move on.

Thx....Il let things cool out till school starts and then il do my thing