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Burn007
August 9th, 2012, 05:02 PM
When is the right time to have a first intercourse(is that how its said?xD)
I am 13 and i thought that from the next year i would be ready......Whats ur opinion?
I know a lot of guys that started with 14-15 so yeah.....
jonjon1998
August 9th, 2012, 05:07 PM
I don't think there's a real way to answer... It's based on the individual. Some will feel ready young and some will decide to wait for whatever reason. Me? I'm ready now;)
garrettu
August 9th, 2012, 05:25 PM
It's not a specific age when u should be ready, age is just a number, it's just when you are mentally able to
Burn007
August 9th, 2012, 05:55 PM
age is just a number,
Prison is just a room :P
(Thx to whoever has that in his sig :D)
Ok if its diffrent for individuals what is the age your friends did it first time?
What is the usual age ?
jokermaster101
August 23rd, 2012, 07:15 PM
intercourse is something you should only do to your wife. not just any girl you picked up on the street. if you want to put yourself at risk of STDs and join the other teens that get pregnant before marriage, then go right ahead.
being 13, u know so little. just jerk off and stop thinking you are reaady to mate
xXJust Jump ItXx
August 23rd, 2012, 07:19 PM
Theres no "right" time to... and dont have it so young! Im 16 and never have.... wait till your older or when you find some girl you love, be smart about it and dont get anyone pregnant!!
Harley Quinn
August 23rd, 2012, 07:20 PM
If you have to ask, you're not ready. It's as simple as that.
workingatperfect
August 23rd, 2012, 08:02 PM
If you have to ask, you're not ready. It's as simple as that.
Pretty much this. You'll know when you're entirely ready, you won't need to ask.
And as everyone else had said, it's not about the age, it's about how mature you are emotionally/mentally/etc. There's so many factors that play into whether or not a person is "ready" to have sex that you can't really put an age on when it's the right time. It's something only you can determine for yourself.
Nullandvoid
August 23rd, 2012, 08:09 PM
If you are still calling it "intercourse" you are way too young for it
Tevin
August 23rd, 2012, 09:56 PM
The answer is it is right for you when it is right for you. Never rush into that just for the sake of doing it.
Captain Crush
August 24th, 2012, 12:35 AM
Whenever you find someone you want to remember for the rest of your life and whenever you are ready, don't rush into it.
Burn007
August 24th, 2012, 03:00 AM
If you have to ask, you're not ready. It's as simple as that.
I ask for age that is mainly the case....if i care i would do it right now if i would get a chance......
If you are still calling it "intercourse" you are way too young for it
I can say Sex,Fuck etch but intercourse is the same thing as when people say penis....dick is sometimes rude also fucking......
intercourse is something you should only do to your wife. not just any girl you picked up on the street. if you want to put yourself at risk of STDs and join the other teens that get pregnant before marriage, then go right ahead.
being 13, u know so little. just jerk off and stop thinking you are reaady to mate
Nope....u live in wrong age pall......Noone does that if their parents arent religious or something like that.....
loop15
August 24th, 2012, 04:53 AM
its different for all people.
Pipo
August 24th, 2012, 12:11 PM
I ask for age that is mainly the case....if i care i would do it right now if i would get a chance......
I can say Sex,Fuck etch but intercourse is the same thing as when people say penis....dick is sometimes rude also fucking......
Nope....u live in wrong age pall......Noone does that if their parents arent religious or something like that.....
I think that's pretty dumb thing to say. I believe that sex is something that should be done with your girlfriend or boyfriend. Not with just a friend who's horny and wants to have sex.
Of course if you've many partners in sex more higher chances you've to get sex disease from them. If you only have sex with your girlfriend for example you've less chances to get sex disease cuz you know she's not having sex with anyone else. But if you're having sex with your friend who is a girl you don't know if she has had sex with 10 guys before she had with you.
So your choice when you're going to have sex better choose it good. . . to not regret your first time or anything like that.
And you're ready for sex when you feel like you're ready there is no age when you're ready for sex it's not like when you're 13 okay everyone is ready for sex...
your girlfriend or w/e might be even like 15 and you're 14 ready for sex but she isn't . . .
PinkFloyd
August 24th, 2012, 12:48 PM
It depends if you're mentally and physically ready. Just please, ude a condom.
Short Circuit
August 24th, 2012, 01:20 PM
There is no proper answer to this, the religious element will say "not till your married, and only with the wife", the older members will say your too young blah, blah, blah.
Some boys start having sex earlier than others, there is no set age, IF you think you are ready, then go for it, if not, then wait till you think your ready.
Burn007
August 24th, 2012, 02:05 PM
I think that's pretty dumb thing to say. I believe that sex is something that should be done with your girlfriend or boyfriend. Not with just a friend who's horny and wants to have sex.
Of course if you've many partners in sex more higher chances you've to get sex disease from them. If you only have sex with your girlfriend for example you've less chances to get sex disease cuz you know she's not having sex with anyone else. But if you're having sex with your friend who is a girl you don't know if she has had sex with 10 guys before she had with you.
So your choice when you're going to have sex better choose it good. . . to not regret your first time or anything like that.
And you're ready for sex when you feel like you're ready there is no age when you're ready for sex it's not like when you're 13 okay everyone is ready for sex...
your girlfriend or w/e might be even like 15 and you're 14 ready for sex but she isn't . . .
Ahh yeah....that was a replay to the guy saying "do it only with ur wife"....and lets get real out of 2 billions of people only 10% still believes in that....and even less actually do that
agrasso95
August 24th, 2012, 03:11 PM
no specific righttime when youre ready you'll know it
Sean4U
August 24th, 2012, 03:44 PM
It depends if you're mentally and physically ready. Just please, ude a condom.
Don't forget EMOTIONALLY ready as well....there is no magic age, no magic answer.....you will know when you are ready when you find that ONE person that you want to be with because it is the right thing for the two of you....and to emphasize what rob said......be safe and use a condom....better to be safe even if it the ONLY person you have been with or are with.....because only YOU know how many people you have been with and even if you partner says you're his/her first, you really need to be careful.....
Burn007
August 24th, 2012, 03:59 PM
That yellow color just hurt my eyes :P I know all that stufffff!!!!I just wanna know what age do people normally start having sex :P
oh and btw i think that mentally and emotionally is pretty much the same thing
cindy99
August 26th, 2012, 11:50 AM
You'll know.My body was ready at like 11 physicaly but I wasn't ready.I waited untill I was more mature.
Elysium
August 26th, 2012, 11:53 AM
It depends if you're mentally and physically ready. Just please, ude a condom.
This, exactly. Some people have lost their virginity younger than you, some over ten years older. It all depends on your preparation and opportunity. Make sure the other person is ready, too!
Pipo
August 26th, 2012, 01:38 PM
Ahh yeah....that was a replay to the guy saying "do it only with ur wife"....and lets get real out of 2 billions of people only 10% still believes in that....and even less actually do that
2 billion of people are dumb then. Doesn't hurt me :D
like I said I'd only do it with boyfriend/girlfriend.
Burn007
August 26th, 2012, 01:46 PM
Well yeah thats another thing BF/GF :P First time will probably be with GF ^^
Dimitri
August 26th, 2012, 02:12 PM
Here is the simple and easy way to answer this...
We all know that condoms are not 100% effective...SO, needless to say. When YOU are ready to deal with, support and raise a child that might be a result of your first time intercourse then you are ready for sex but until then, no...you are not ready.
Mark Jackson
August 26th, 2012, 04:29 PM
I think being "ready" is unimportant. I mean what does that even mean. If you have gone through puberty then I think that means your "ready." Having sex at 14 isnt going to mess you up unless you get an std or she gets pregnant.
ajp1993
August 26th, 2012, 06:30 PM
It'll just happen when you're ready for it. Could be today, could be tomorrow, could be 30yrs from now.
Everyone is different. Dont rush it just because you think your mates are doing it or something. Most are probably lying anyhow :P
I was 14, didn't tell anyone about it until much later. Some of my friends are still virgins. Its no big deal
Shining Star
August 26th, 2012, 07:26 PM
There really is no specific age. Its when you are mature enough to wanna do it and be responsible enough to take precautions so that the both of you stay safe. You also need to be able to accept any consequences that may happen along the way.
For me, I felt ready when I first had sex and have no regrets.
OregonStateDude
August 26th, 2012, 07:41 PM
I'm physically ready right now. As to being emotionally ready, that's a whole different thing. Part of me wants my first time to be with an actual boyfriend. And another part of me says, "pfffffffft", and just let my best friend take my cherry.
Decisions, decisions........................
Anna G
August 26th, 2012, 07:51 PM
Yes "intercourse" is the correct mature way to refer to having sex.:yes:
My preference is over 18.
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