ex-girlfriend stories

[tmd215]

About 8 months I started seeing this girl! We were totally fine up until christmas when she told me she was moving to leicester so there was nothing I could do about that so I let it drop and continued on with her while she was 35 nmiles away! We met up once a month and talked 3 times a week on skype and we called each other a lot of the time. Around march I had got to know some of her friends and it was getting better being away from her. Mid march I went to leicester to see her and I checked her phone while I was there as you do checking if she's ok and I found a conversation with another guy and I wasn't jealous until I found a message to her saying " I really miss you, I really want to see you again, I love you so much" I didn't know how to react so I brought it up and she said it was this guy who could leave her alone and we continued til june and then it got worse when she told me she and her family had to move again but further away and she was moving to australia, I then said that I have to end the relationship as she was moving away and that was it. I still keep in contact with her but so much less and now I just want to see her and I want to get back with her but my family arent going australia this year its america again so what should I do!

HELP! And advice please xx

[FreeFall]

I say let it all go.
When she moved, she started to say 'I love you' to another guy. Now she's going to be moving even further away. More than just texting can be done in the safety of you not being as close as before.
Regardless of what that guy's doing, if he's not you or a relative of her's she shouldn't be saying 'I love you, I miss you so much' to him the way she did.
You ended it, in my opinion you did the best thing you could.
That's not a healthy relationship to be having and to hold onto.

[West Coast Sheriff]

Let it go

[Clawhammer]

Let her go, lad. Nothing else you can do but end it well now.

[tmd215]

It may not have been a healthy relationship but I don't actually know what the text messages were about, for all I know he could be in a relationship with her. But he could be stalking her

[FreeFall]

No. Regardless of what he was doing, if he's not a close relative or you, she should not have said what she said. If he was a true stalker, she made it all worse by saying what she had. You never ever engage a true stalker, you get the cops and/or a RO.

If she was in a relationship with him, why would you want to be the other boyfriend she has again but this with even more miles a part thrown in?