im not sure

[o1emissp1aya]

um, ok, 1st of all, i wanna say, you guys suck at responding. i never get good advice back.

now, forget my past couple of posts if you read them, im over those girls now, so im not to worry about them

but now, theres this girl. she is absolutely amazing. we've known each other since 8th grade (currently in 10th) but we never really talked. another friend got us talking on myspace, then it got to aim, now we're randomly chattin at school.

im really starting to like her, but i dont know how she feels, i dont know what to do

anyone want to leave some, useful, not stupid, possible advice?

itd be appreciated

[Gumleaf]

i hope this doesn't come under the stupid category, i'm sure you will let me know if it does. these are the options i can think of:

1. get to know her more through talking and then when you feel confident enough you might want to ask her to hang out. that way you are not asking her to be your gf, you are just trying to spend time together. by doing this you can guage her thoughts about you. e.g. does she want to go out again in the future? do you get along well outside of school? if the signs from her are positive then it may be worthwhile telling her how you feel and see where she is.

2. the other option is more indirect, you could ask some of her friends if they know how she feels about you and see if they have any idea. although this is indirect it comes at the risk causing gossip and getting back to her really quickly.

3. option 3 is the brave option. just tell her how you feel about her and see what she thinks. make sure you prepare yourself for the possiblity of rejection if you choose this option.

good luck!!!

[Serenity]

um, ok, 1st of all, i wanna say, you guys suck at responding. i never get good advice back.

now, forget my past couple of posts if you read them, im over those girls now, so im not to worry about them

but now, theres this girl. she is absolutely amazing. we've known each other since 8th grade (currently in 10th) but we never really talked. another friend got us talking on myspace, then it got to aim, now we're randomly chattin at school.

im really starting to like her, but i dont know how she feels, i dont know what to do

anyone want to leave some, useful, not stupid, possible advice?

itd be appreciated

You, sir, are one of the WORST people I've ever seen ask for advice. You tell us we suck and that what we have posted in the past was stupid. And yet you want help?

Plus, within a period of ELEVEN DAYS you obsess over a girl you broke up with four times wanting us to tell you something besides, "That relationship obviously isn't going to work" , then move on to a new crush, and throw in another one now. And you expect us to take you seriously and offer you any kind of help? You need a major attitude adjustment. Like NOW.

[marine_sniperman35]

Ok dude...emotionalmeltdown has a point. Now I am going to make mine.
YOU FUCKING SUCK WITH GIRLS!!!!!
Wanna know how I know that?? Uhh because no matter how much we suck at giving you our opinion, and yet you even state that we suck at it...you go on and say "ok i have a new crush" right under the same fucking bulletin. If you don't like the responses then quit fucking posting on the boards ok? My God people honestly. We can only give you advice based off of our experiences...and if you don't like it then get off the boards and don't come back. Deal with it yourself. You keep stating how u love this girl and then you dump her as if it is no big deal and then you love another girl. No way in hell someone falls in love that many times. We are not obligated to go onto your bulletin post and respond to every piece of crap message you post about some girl you now have a huge crush on. We choose to based off of our own freewill. You are just going to have to deal with our advice....though you may not like it....or deal with it yourself. Although something tells me that the reason you don't like our advice is because it's the truth and you can't handle the truth.

So piece out bitch whore.
Good luck with the ladies in the future.
I doubt you will have any if you keep up this attitude and keep being so damn stubborn about the advice we give to you.

Did i mention you suck with girls??