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VirtualTeen9000
August 9th, 2012, 04:20 AM
I am so f*cking sick of being a nice guy ! ! !
I'm turning 17 in 20 days and i think my love life is miserable . I've been with only 4 girls , and i have rejected 15 girls , i've always thought it's quality what's important not quantity, and i've been choosing quality all the time . But im tired of being friendzoned. I'm a nice guy , I 'd do everything for a girl , I cook , I clean , everyone says I'm handsome, communicative , interesting , but every girl i meet i kinda set myself very friendly, and girls are surpriced when i tell them i like them. They all say you are very handsome , but i can't see you any other way than a friend . A girl recently rejected me because she loved me like a friend we know each other some time , and we've been flirting and giving each other compliments but she rejected me. She's going out with the ugliest person in the world who has cheated on her 2 times with ugly girls . I asked her , why do you go out with him and how did he get you , he's ugly as f*ck. And she said he got me by being the bad boy , he isn't beautiful but i got very interested while he was being a bad boy. The ugly f*cktard has had more than 40 girls in his life and i can't live with the thought , look at me im handsome , look at him he's ugly , is that bad boy thing really that relevant ?
So please , boys ,girls , please give me tips for the future about how to be a bad boy , im tired of being nice , i dont want to be a jerk , but i want to get more girls and not get friendzoned.I've been googling and googling about how to be the bad boy but i still can't get anything. Every comment will be helpful , thank you all , I really need this.

White
August 9th, 2012, 04:28 AM
Well man, I have the same problem normally. Getting friend zoned does suck, bad. But you can't let yourself get friend zoned easy. You don't have to be a total dick to the girls not be in the friend zone. Just cut the nice guy stuff. Stop cooking for them and cleaning for them and being so nice to them. Not to be rude but they can do it their selves. Maybe try stop talking to them as much. Sortaaaa start over, you could say. If you guys talk alot, talk only a couple days a week. She'll forget you're her best friend and you'll just be a friend, then start talking to her again, but not sooo sweet. As early as you can, show your feelings for her, so you can like her before she can friendzone you.

VirtualTeen9000
August 9th, 2012, 04:37 AM
Thank you dude. It's just we've known each other for 5 days or something and we really have a lot of things in common, and she's been complimenting me all the time etc.. And yesterday i was drunk and had the guts to tell her i like her . And she said that she just sees me as a friend , and she loves me a lot and i mean a lot to her , but just as a friend, and she said that she really means that , not counting the fact that we know each other 5 days. I think from now on i'll try to pay no attention to the girls but meh.. it's not me :(

White
August 9th, 2012, 04:39 AM
You know, heres just one of MY thoughts and it may not be the smartest thing ever.. Why don't you just tell her that you love her and if you guys don't date then you can't see you guys even being friends anymore, because you like her that much.

VirtualTeen9000
August 9th, 2012, 04:50 AM
Oh i dont like her that much , i really dont care about that as much as i care about the bad boy thing , coz with that even the ugly people get tons of girls

White
August 9th, 2012, 04:54 AM
Lol well then go with the bad guy thing. Just don't be a total dick, no one wants to date anyone like that. Don't cheat on your gf, don't treat her like shit etc. Even though she WANTS a bad boy she doesnt WANT to be treated horrible.

Burn007
August 9th, 2012, 05:31 PM
Idk what to say really....

Oh one really god thing is That u talk with a girl a lot over Facebook or Phone that way she meets u and finds out u have a lots of things in common but she dosnt take u as "friend" as long as u put other boys and girls out of talk and u say that u like her after a week u will be fine...And sometimes its just a bad luck :P (said from the personal experience)

Btw tell her that u like her very fast tell it in nice way dont ask her to be with u only put in her mind that u like her....that way u lover the chance of friend zone and if u get rejected it will be that she simply dosnt like u :P

VirtualTeen9000
August 12th, 2012, 06:21 AM
oo druze srbine

Brice
August 12th, 2012, 01:36 PM
I don't suggest the bad boy thing. I've seen that too many times. The key is to be nice, but not too nice and drop hints that you like them, while getting to know them so you can keep thinking about quality. Good luck with whatever you do!