Rejecteddd

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I have a crush on my friend, but he pretty much already let me know he's not interested. Instead of just leaving it at though, I'm having a reaaaaaaaaally hard time moving on :/ I am upset about the way he brushed me off and I want to get some closure for this but Idk how.

Any ideas? should I just try and bury it and not bring it up again?

[FreeFall]

I can understand the drive for closure.
If he's not interested though, there's really not much more closure one can have. In fact what you hear could possibly cause you more distress.

[Brice]

How exactly did he brush you off? In a nice way or a rude way? Because I think that if people would start being nicer about this sort of thing, there'd be less depression and things like that. It happened to me before. I just try not to think of it and do normal things and, over time, I got over it. That's my advice, if he did it rudely.

[DerBear]

My advice would just be to clear your mind of it. Rejection is always a hard thing to deal with. The best idea is to bury it and move on. You could try talking to the person you had a crush, and just be friends with them.

I will say though it would be a good idea to attempt to talk to them first as every time you see them it might re open the old wound. So my advice would be attempt to talk to them and become friends with them and that will hopefully lead to closure. However, if talking does not work just bury it and never speak of it again. Sometimes the past is best left in the past.