What's Your Opinion?

[Kazooie]

Whats your opinion on a boyfriend or girlfriend of yours going on the webcam with other guys/girls that usually leads to something sexual? :mad:

[Manjusri]

That's just like asking; "Do you care if your boyfriend/girlfriend cheats on you?"
Although its happening over webcam, that still doesn't change the fact that your partner is screwing around with someone else.

[OregonStateDude]

I wouldn't like it one bit. I don't have a boyfriend yet, but when I do, I sure wouldn't want him showing off his prick to some random stranger. :(

[Abyssal Echo]

That's just like asking; "Do you care if your boyfriend/girlfriend cheats on you?"
Although its happening over webcam, that still doesn't change the fact that your partner is screwing around with someone else.

I agree cheating is cheating does not matter if its online or live in person.
That is one thing me and my Mom do agree on if our significant other cheats they're gone.

[Kazooie]

Thanks, it's good to know that me being pissed off is justified.

[Mortal Coil]

You being pissed is justified, but personally I wouldn't care. In my opinion, if it's just sexual then it's really just hormones. It doesn't mean emotionally being unfaithful.
Plus, I'd be overjoyed to even have a boyfriend or girlfriend.

[Bluesman]

She's cheating on you in my opinion. That's as wrong to me as it is in person. You have every reason to be VERY pissed off.

[Music4Lyfe]

Thats not right. That is pretty much the same as cheating. Not pretty much. iT IS

[Kirsi]

I consider that cheating and I think many other people would as well. If my boyfriend was doing that then he would be cheating on me and I would feel very hurt and betrayed. As much as I really love my boyfriend if he ever did that to me I would have to break up with him because clearly he doesn't love me back.

[LIAM.M]

Like everyone else is saying. It's still cheating. If they're showing interest in someone else there's a reason why.

[FreeFall]

It's cheating.
My boyfriend has me. What room in the relationship is there for him to be looking at another girl and doing sexual things? Even if there's no contact? That's disrespectful to me and a betrayal in my eyes.

[Sleepy Raisin]

Thats nooot okay. If my girlfriend were doing that i would break up with her, speacially cuz i think thats worse than cheatin on me with a person in real life. Because the webcam thing is creepy in my opinion

[StoneColdNicky]

Wow, this is a tricky question. I don't see this as cheating, but at the same time I am not sure how comfortable I would feel if I was in that situation either.

[Levy]

I'd more or less ask why he didn't invite me to the webcam party.. .-.

[War-Is-Real]

I don't see that as cheating. :T

[anymasy]

That's also cheating. I wouldn't accept the thing she did and I would probably break up with her. But in extreme situations like her begging or if I love her too much for breaking up I would give her a one last chance.

[StoneColdNicky]

This has really got me thinking now. On the one hand I pretty strongly feel that this isn't cheating. I mean, its just video and words. No physical contact was ever made. But on the other hand, if I was in that situation, I think I would feel uncomfortable.

[Kazooie]

Thanks for the replies, everyone.

So about 3 hours or so ago, he openly told me that he did it again, with three of my close friends, that I introduced him to the day before. At this point, I'm thinking that this relationship isn't working anymore.

I hope this doesn't go bad.

[ashdyn]

Thanks for the replies, everyone.

So about 3 hours or so ago, he openly told me that he did it again, with three of my close friends, that I introduced him to the day before. At this point, I'm thinking that this relationship isn't working anymore.

I hope this doesn't go bad.

Again?

Okay...so once could have been a hormonally charged mistake. A lapse in judgement. But 3 times...with 3 separate people. It's time to move on lol

[StoneColdNicky]

The fact that he keeps doing it, and telling you all about it, makes me think he wants you to join in or be on the other end, or something.