Shyness Gets The Best of Me

[Blayne]

:whoops Shyness always get the best of me when i try to ask a girl out. I need adivice on how to get past this. Plzzzz!!! :wub:

[cerney]

just do it dude, works for mee

[jonjon1998]

Yup. Actually a lot of girls like shy guys. Just tell her your pretty shy but have something important to say and just say it:)

Good luck!

[Stryker125]

I'm pretty shy too, but you just gotta do it man. All you need is twenty seconds of courage.

[TheRev]

listen to a song that sorta mellows you out. then listen to one that pumps you up... or just asked and see what happends o.o though this is coming from a gay guy... i have asked out a lot of chicks before XD

[TheWaterPrince]

I know how you feel it took me forever to ask my gf out. Just start talking to her nd say you gotta tell her something nd say it

[Clawhammer]

Just buck up and do it. Simple and easy.

[Soccer-is-life]

Just be yourself brah. What worked for me for asking this girl to go to prom with me is that I bought her a heart shaped donut and I wrote on the box "will you go to prom with me" yes I know very cheesy -.- lol but it worked! And I ended up winning prom king haha. But do something creative that a girl would think is "cute" that's how you get to a womens heart

[DerBear]

I think you might find more relevant answers here
Puberty for Boys :arrow: Relationships and Dating

My advice is simple. You have to just bite the bullet and ask. Its like jumping into a cold pool, deep breath and then take the plunge. It is something every teen has to go through. Don't worry, just relax and go for it.

[White]

She won't think any less of you if you're shy, it's just how you are and she nor you can really fix that. Once you ask her it won't be as bad and you'll be alot less shy around her, and who knows, maybe even around other people.

[Perfectly Flawed]

Okay what you need to do is go into an ignorant mindset that you are a total baller and no one can put you down then just walk up and ask her out. If you fake confidence you would be surprised just how much it can make things easier.

[Spreadingwings]

trust me just ask her flat out:)

[Burn007]

Like people say....Suck it up and say that u like her....after first time it will be a lot easier

[kaylaleeds]

nike has said it best: just do it.

but if you need something to psych you up, you might want to read www.uncannymindpower.com. it has helped some of my friends (both guy and girl) in overcoming their shyness and insecurity. you're welcome.:)

[Taryn98]

Try not to think about it or not have a specific plan on how you're going to ask her. That will put too much pressure on your self. Just do it spur of the moment so you won't have been thinking about it all day or something.
It will seem spontaneous and a lot of girls like that.