Sex drive

[techdude]

I have a problem... It seems like I have little or no sexual desire, and I'm 14. I don't know if that's normal or not, but when I walk by a hot girl it's not like I want to do it with her or share some rude sexual comment with my friends or anything.

It's starting to worry me alot. I should want to do it with a girl, right? Teenage boy are supposed to have sex on their minds all the time right? it just isnt for me. I'm pretty sure I'm not gay... Id take a girl over a guy any day. But just a cute girl, not some dirty whore like on girls gone wild or anything. I dont feel a need to look at porn. Help plz anyone?? Is this ok?

[JonM]

dont worry buddy. Everyone gets turned on by differant things. It is not a matter of sex drive. You are also only 14 and not all of your honmones have kicked in yet either, I am not sure how far you are into your growth though.

[Gumleaf]

you have nothing to worry about. it can take a while for people to discover what turns them on in a sexual way.

[Trickster]

youre just 14 so dont worry ur hormones just didnt catch wup with ur brain yet. U may want to be turned on but u cant control it. Just wait a while

[Crazysam]

your are only 14 the chances are your hormones haven't quite kicked in yet ;)

[byee]

Everybody has a sex drive, it's a biological thing. Yours just isn't in the way! If you read a newspaper, watch TV, look at BB's like this one, you're likely led to the conclusion (erroneously) that the only thing guys, young guys especially, ever think about is sex, sex, sex. Wrong! It takes awhile, but I think that 'healthy' guys (regardless of how much TV they watch) integrate their sexual urges with the rest of themselves, allowing them to actually walk down the street (and maybe chew gum at the same time!) and not be distracted by pretty girls or their own biology.

[Unknown_kid]

maby cute skinny girls arent for you?

maby you like bigger girls?

[Glasgow]

Everybody has a sex drive, it's a biological thing.

Im pretty sure Asexuals dont have sex drives and they are included as somebody. But anyways, have you hit puberty yet?

[cdp123]

Even before i started puberty, i was turned on by a cute girl and porn, so it's natural, it's like eating food, you don't like some things, but you like food in general, and sometimes you get an aquired taste, which means something you didn't like before, you like all of the sudden, so don't worry about it or force yourself to make any kind of descison or make any action you don't feel comfortable with :).

[byee]

Amoebas are asexual, and as far as I know, don't have a sex drive. Humans, however, do have a sex drive.

[1234]

Yeah...ummm can we just still to humans that sexually reproduce? :P

[Unknown_kid]

ehhhh... yea?

[MoveAlong]

IIt's starting to worry me alot. I should want to do it with a girl, right? Teenage boy are supposed to have sex on their minds all the time right? it just isnt for me. I'm pretty sure I'm not gay... Id take a girl over a guy any day. But just a cute girl, not some dirty whore like on girls gone wild or anything. I dont feel a need to look at porn. Help plz anyone?? Is this ok?

"I'm pretty sure I'm not gay..."
What the hell does gay have to do with not being horny? God damn, I'm fucking horny all the time and I'm as queer as you can get :P

As far as your sex drive, sex drive comes with hormones. If you're not far into puberty or considerably developed, your body might be producing less sex hormones for the time being and you might not feel horny a lot. It could also be because you're just not a very horny person...that too is normal :D