Hiding my sexuality - Really need help

[Ahoy]

Hi all. I am bisexual. Lately I have been having a problem of letting gay actions slip. I am okay wth myself, but my parents, friends and relatives would not. I am still in the closet on this and would like to wait until college, so no one will know that I am bi.
Since this is my first post I will introduce myself in here. I am a bisexual 17 year old who will be a senior next year. I really never thought anything of it until about 3 months ago when it hit me what was up. I really do not mind, but it is everyone around me that will mind. 2 weekends ago I had my first gay thing happen. I will tell about that later. I have a girlfirend and I find her very attractive and we get along well but I do not know how she would handle knowing who I really am.

[///James///]

well hiding things might make things harder to be honest. if she really loves you, she wont have too much of a problem. idk really, how long are you with her??

what was this gay thing, i kinda need to know so i can help.

what type of gay actions do you let slip?

[Ahoy]

well hiding things might make things harder to be honest. if she really loves you, she wont have too much of a problem. idk really, how long are you with her??

what was this gay thing, i kinda need to know so i can help.

what type of gay actions do you let slip?

We've been together around 8 months. I think she would not mind as we get along very well. It is my parents I am worried about becuase they think alot of me. I have all A grades except for 1 B+. I do not get in trouble and I have a girlfriend.

A few months ago I got a job at a supermarket with someone that I admire. He's really cute. I requested that I get the same shift as him. He is straight but he had to spend the weekend becuase he had no way to get to work and I said that I could drive him with me. He just wanted to try it. He said he enjoyed it, but that he wouldn't really want to do it alot. We striped down to our underwear and hugged and kissed and tusseled around in the bed and slept like that for the night. My parents did not find out becuase I have a bedroom in the basement and theirs is on the second floor. The friday night, I broke it to him that I was bi and then saturday night I told him that I was attracted to him and things just progressed to that.

I sometimes talk gay and walk gay by mistake and say gay things and stuff.

[///James///]

notice how everyones story OTHER then mine goes so well in a way!

so are you and him still like together in a way or not?

if they ever questiond you about u being an A student, say ur the same as you always were, gay is nothing! something like that!

[Ahoy]

We really have not done much. He has come over a few times and we talked some but nothing big really. We are friends still.

I really do not understand what you mean. They think the world of me and think that I am perfect. I think they would be hurt and crushed the most if they found out. If my girlfriend does not like it, I will be upset but she is not really my friend. Any tips on hiding it?

[///James///]

the best thing to do, is think before you act! when you are walking, think then walk, when your talking think what ur going to say!

just really if you are unsure on if this is right or something (like walkin, talkin) think before you do it!

lets see, i think the best thing possibly is wait until you are 101% sure you are gay. best thing to do, is wait a few years, if you have a boyfriend, they will be bound to find out or something. so the best thing to do is tell them. but i feel that being Bi isnt such a big deal for parents to know, but being gay is.

[Jordan-Civ3 Master1991]

Im thinking maybe you should pay attention to what your saying ang if you sound gay give yourself a mental slap

[Jessiikkaaaa_]

Well whoo reli cares ?? Aslong as your happy ii think your family and friends wunt give a toss.. Buhhh, Your misses might.. Just tell them all how you feel... And if you aint happy then your aint BI or Gayy. x

[Gumleaf]

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