Virginity (and plz girls answer too)

[Charlie1234]

Ive never had sex before but have and know girls and girlfriends that would.... So can you people give me some tips to get girls to want to have sex with you around 13 years old and not make ockward? Or at least get them to around some "bases" like past 2nd base?

[MemoriesLost]

13? Bro, I'm 14 and don't want to lose my virginity any time soon o_O
I think you should give it some time.

[lddboy]

Same here I'm totally fine without sex for now

[torxx]

When I'm masturbating I imagine that I want to lose my virginity, but after the climax, I honestly don't think I will until like 16-18.

[bigbrapp]

Honestly, we all want sex, but it`s too risky, and 13 is probably too young. I have some friends that arent virgins and they say they regret losing their virginity so soon. trust me on this and wait it out brother.there are many other things you could be doing other than having sex.

[JimmyIsNowAMan]

dude, 13 is too young...really!

[LouBerry]

I think that sex at thirteen can mess you up. So, that's a pretty bad idea.

[Perfectly Flawed]

I didn't have sex until 16, and I felt that it was a good time for me. Honestly I think 13 is too young, especially sense you would have the chance of getting someone pregnant.

[Mortal Coil]

Nooooo, don't do it yet! Seriously, I know it sounds really patronizing right now, all of us telling you that you're too young, but you will realize when you're older that 13 is far too young to risk it.

[bigboomsma]

Bro, I'm 18 and a virgin. 3rd base is all I've wanted till around now. Sex isnt everything, so dont rush it. you will find the right girl and she will blow your mind when the times right

[Abyssal Echo]

Ive never had sex before but have and know girls and girlfriends that would.... So can you people give me some tips to get girls to want to have sex with you around 13 years old and not make ockward? Or at least get them to around some "bases" like past 2nd base?

Idk what to tell you the 2 girls I've had sex with offered it to me I was 13 at the time also. but was deffinately not a virgin at the time either so knew what they were offering :D

[Tilico18]

13 is way too young.
Try again at 16.

[Nellerin]

I do not see a point in losing your virginity until after 16, too risky IMO.

[anymasy]

There are things that you need to learn by yourself but you are too young to learn it because you are not in puberty ages for not a long time like the girls at your age too. Wait them. When they want it you'll know. Also like everyone said, 13 is too young to have sex. Probably you can't even get birth control materials and you need to have them. Also sex is considered as an adult act. You are too far from being adult. Just wait until 15-16.

[BrittneyB]

you shouldn't be trying to figure out how to get girls to have sex with you... not at 13, 14, or anytime soon :/ for one, it should be because they want to, not because they were convinced, and two, you're waaay too young. I can say this from experience.

[Rebeccauk]

This thread is refreshing to read. When I started looking at it, I imagined it would be full of people saying they'd lost theirs at like 12 or something. Personally, I think its nice to read that so many posters here haven't and are waiting.

Everybody is different and really there is no right and wrong. I'm 15 and haven't yet but I don't criticise younger friends who have. Everybody should do what they believe to be right. My own view is there is plenty of time in the future for serious relationships and personally I don't wish to grow up too fast and have done everything in life already.

[RonaldoRoxx]

Dont take a girl for just sex. Girls are also like us. Fall in love with some girl and love her for ur entire life. This can help you than rather searching a girl for just the sake of having sex bro!

[Rozza]

i haven't lost it yet and im 17. i think you should wait and not have sex so young 13 is too young to have sex, you should wait for the right person who loves you. i would never get a girl just for sex, its just wrong. you need a meaningful relationship first before you have sex. thats what i believe anyway

[lou lou]

Why the rush? I'm 15 almost 16 and i have not had sex yet I'm waiting for "the one". You cant just be physicaly ready you also have to be mentaly ready because things could happen that can ruin your life forever. So just wait until you know your physicaly AND mentaly ready.

[stoneflowe96]

Sey with 13 is not so a good idea, I will first have it with 16 and my bf agrees with it. maybe you will regret it in that age.

[Ellie wood crainey]

grow up life isnt all about sex, your not ready wait.

[torxx]

Also, be sure to spell "awkward" correctly :p

[Dowlking]

Bro, I'm 16 and a virgin. 3rd/4th base is all I've wanted till around now. Sex isnt everything, so dont rush it. you will find the right girl and she will blow your mind when the times right. My little bro got a girl pregnant at the age of 14, she miscarried but it was scary for a while that a child was cing into the world with little potential support acailable for it. Dont do it

[NotAvailable]

Dude , you are only 13 ..... why the rush , give it sometime ... and when you will find the right girl and the right time u will know it and you will do it .

[toobigforlife]

Wait till your 16 or so to have sex, your not mentally, emotionally and physically ready for sex right now!

[anyone50]

Life is not a race. at 13 you should focus your energies on other things and not sex there will always be sex when you get older and by then you won't have to ask some strangers to give you advise on how to score>

[Jaysonn]

Save it for someone you genuinely like and care about- and at least until your older

[lilygirl16]

Im probably not the best person to be giving advice because I lost my virginity at 10 and I dont regret it. I lost it with a now super close friend and he is the one I always go back to even though we are not "together" but trust me you will find the girl who makes you crazy and you shoulld wait for her becuase it will definitly be worth it.

[Pvvn]

Well, i think you should wait for the special someone, atleast i am going to. :)

[Nullandvoid]

Life is not a race. at 13 you should focus your energies on other things and not sex there will always be sex when you get older and by then you won't have to ask some strangers to give you advise on how to score>

How old r u girl? Maturity like yours is rare and needed here I think!

[agrasso95]

Don't rush it! Just relax, jack off, and be patient. Everyone's time will come when they lose their virginity

[justinglives]

Dude.....just enjoy the journey into puberty. U don't have to have sex yet, and I agree w above its prob not such a great idea. Bases...ok. masturbate, enjoy mayb a handjob or so, mayb even oral, but reserve the full sex till ure ready. Find someone who isbthe love of ure life. You'll kno cuz it'll b right 4 both of u.

[squibles976]

Not gonna lie its this kind of stuff that breaks my heart your way too young, same for all these guys and girls who 14 or 15 who lost their virginity sure it feels great and is fun but it isn't something that should be about status or just being horny you should do such things with someone special for example I absolutely loved a girl and everything was great but when we wanted to get serious it didn't work out cuz she didn't like the fact I wasn't a virgin I don't hold it against her or anything she was a wonderful girl and I respect her and loved her even more for her abstinence and choices but it goes to show you have to put a lot of thought into it but frankly ur too young

[Fable]

dont rush it..

[Jackson L]

Im 13 and never had sex but dont want to rush it but if it comes up dont know

[cass_jun]

for a 13 yr old? a big no no!

[dvd333]

Dont do it