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Sugaree
August 14th, 2007, 11:39 PM
Ok there is this girl right. I have had feelings about her and have been thinking of asking her out. My folks think I'm 2 young 2 date cause I'm 13! What do I do?

RaisingSand
August 15th, 2007, 12:15 AM
Sorry mate, but I agree with your parents. :/ 13 is too young to have a girlfriend/be dating IMO. With all the stuff happening in your life when you're that age, the last thing you really need is the stress of a relationship.
Maybe wait a year or so, eh? :)

Sage
August 15th, 2007, 12:20 AM
Thy parents are right. Go find something better to do.

RaisingSand
August 15th, 2007, 12:34 AM
Try not to rush anything mate, you're young and there are heaps of girls out there. XD

mr. self destruct
August 15th, 2007, 04:16 PM
I don't think there's anything wrong with having a girlfriend at 13. Don't expect it to last very long though.

Sugaree
August 17th, 2007, 12:59 PM
ok thx anyway guys. Maybe your right way 2 young!

Mollie
August 17th, 2007, 01:15 PM
i personally dont think 13 is too young... i agree that you shouldnt expect it to last long lol and you probably shouldnt let it get too serious...

but i dont think theres anything wrong with it :)

Sugaree
August 17th, 2007, 01:43 PM
well thx for the support then Mollie! Really appreciate it!

Palm kid
August 17th, 2007, 02:02 PM
I don't think there's anything wrong with having a girlfriend at 13. Don't expect it to last very long though.

im 13 and when i was 12 i had a 10 month relationship

Archduke Robert of France
August 17th, 2007, 07:32 PM
It sounds like you like her because "(SHE IS HOT!!!!)" as opposed to "she has a great personality, she's funny and she can help me with my English homework." Then again, that's just my opinion.

Anyways, I think you are too young to be dating. Odds are that the relationship will die out before you turn 14. I only know of one couple that dated for three years and are still doing it today.

Sugaree
August 18th, 2007, 10:00 PM
Well 2day I asked her how old she was. She's 15 but looks lke 13. You know what she does have a great personality and she is funny and all. So 2moro I'm asking her out! So YOU can't do a THING about it! HAHA! One more thing for all of you who doubt this as the famous Jeff Dunham and his dummy Peanut say: NNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNEEEEEEEEEEEEOOOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWW!

Archduke Robert of France
August 18th, 2007, 11:09 PM
The above post seemed spammy. Anyhoo, good luck with that relationship. We look forward to an update tomorrow.

Sugaree
August 19th, 2007, 10:32 AM
Well that last message wasn't any spam trust me ok. Not like I'm trying to hack someone! lol

heartagram72
August 19th, 2007, 05:10 PM
im 13 and going out with this girl...i even went to her house where we had our first kiss. (her parents were'nt home) just ask her out and dont tell ur parents. when u go on dates, do group dates and say its a party with friends.

just say ur freinds to parents and family. also dont get to mad if she breaks up with you.

marine_sniperman35
August 19th, 2007, 10:24 PM
yeah sorry. 13....way to young to start dating. Have fun while you can.

Sugaree
August 20th, 2007, 12:04 AM
heartagram 2day my parents are on my back for this! I mean I told them everything I know about her! Now unlike you I don't lie ok. Just stupid to do that! I didn't call her 2day because I thought she would say NO. Jeez I'm such an IDIOT!

underoath12192
August 21st, 2007, 11:58 AM
Personally, I don't think 13 is too young to date but if you're parents want u to wait till ur older, then you really don't have much of a choice. I mean what are you going to do, secretly date a girl? It wouldn't work out, so I'd say listen to you're parents.

Sugaree
August 23rd, 2007, 11:34 PM
First of all I didn't call her. My parents talked me out of it. Sucks!

george
August 25th, 2007, 01:30 PM
Ok there is this girl right. (SHE IS HOT!!!!) I have had feelings about her and have been thinking of asking her out. My folks think I'm 2 young 2 date cause I'm 13! What do I do?

Sorry mate, but I agree with your parents. :/ 13 is too young to have a girlfriend/be dating IMO. With all the stuff happening in your life when you're that age, the last thing you really need is the stress of a relationship.
Maybe wait a year or so, eh? :)

Thy parents are right. Go find something better to do.

lol I have a girlfriend right now and im 13 :cool: nothing wrong with being 13 and having a gf :D I say just go for it gl ;)

Silverfist64
August 25th, 2007, 04:35 PM
im also 13 and i like a girl alot. i say that if someone likes someone alot and i mean alot then they should go for it and see how it works out. If it goes nicely and they both like each other but do end up breaking up then there is always a chance later in life. i say go for it if you ever decide to ask her out again(since your parents talked you out of it)

Sugaree
August 27th, 2007, 08:02 PM
I don't know. They might do that again. Besides she's 15 and I'm 13. It will never work guys. Thanks for the help and support though

jorgec23
August 29th, 2007, 09:13 PM
i read on one thread of yours that when you where ten you had sex with one of your friends and that he cummed all over u and that u sucked his dick and that he did the same to you. So if you didnt think you where to young to do that, i dont think your too young to be dating a girl.

Camazotz
August 30th, 2007, 11:28 AM
Jero, that was rude. I dont think you needed to tell anyone that.


I just dont think you have enough experience to be dating.But, if you want to, I would date her, and learn from the experiences, so next time you know what to expect from a realationship.

The Resurrected One
August 30th, 2007, 11:56 AM
i read on one thread of yours that when you where ten you had sex with one of your friends and that he cummed all over u and that u sucked his dick and that he did the same to you. So if you didnt think you where to young to do that, i dont think your too young to be dating a girl.

Why don't you prove the fact that he did that? And even if he did, it doesn't matter and you shouldn't sound rude about it.

Prince Jellyfish
August 30th, 2007, 07:19 PM
Why don't you prove the fact that he did that? And even if he did, it doesn't matter and you shouldn't sound rude about it.

OH BEHAVE!:yeah:

Sugaree
August 30th, 2007, 10:19 PM
i read on one thread of yours that when you where ten you had sex with one of your friends and that he cummed all over u and that u sucked his dick and that he did the same to you. So if you didnt think you where to young to do that, i dont think your too young to be dating a girl.

Ok now what you did there was not right! Thank you for making a fool out of me on the web! :(. Now everyone listen to me carefully! SHE IS 15 AND I AM 13. DO YOU UNDERSTAND? Now jero you shouldn't have done that! :mad:

SammiWHORE
September 3rd, 2007, 10:26 AM
Hmmm...your folks are right. Too young. Well, i cant talk, im only 14 and im in a relationship with this other lad. What i'd do is if you really love this person then why not go out in secret. Make it interesting. Make your folks beleive that your not going out with anyone. That way they'll leave you alone :)
Anyway, its up to you
xx

byee
September 6th, 2007, 07:44 PM
The answer to this is fairly obvious. Don't ask her out.

There are alot of types of friendships that are entirely satisfying and entirely worthwhile that aren't as heavy as going out and that your folks might be ok with.

Sugaree
September 14th, 2007, 02:50 PM
Well I have no idea of what to do and I serve with her at church tomorrow! I dont know what to do! Besides she never would like me

close
September 15th, 2007, 06:48 AM
ask her out im 13 and have been going out with ONE girl for almost a year and have slept at her house in her bed

wait let me clearafy i didnt have sex with her we fell asleep watching TV

but back to you i have had seceret relationships that can make them more special

if you ask her out and she says no start laugh about it and say you didnt realy meen it

Sugaree
September 26th, 2007, 06:59 PM
Well I don't think that it would work besides she is older. SHE IS 15 I AM 13 does everybody U-N-D-E-R-S-T-A-N-D?

Dude_from_colorado
October 8th, 2007, 05:42 AM
well to be honest 13 isn't a bad age for a GF, but dating............ I mean that's for when u are like... 15-16.

free2bme
October 8th, 2007, 01:12 PM
the only problem i see is the problem i have im dating this girl and she forgot how to be a friend when we started dating but i think its good to start dating early to learn the meaning of a relationship

Sugaree
October 8th, 2007, 04:27 PM
Well yeah but right now it's nothing much close to a date