is it weird

[logan fields]

i did not do sex before but a friend of mine wants to mess around a little bit and im a little scared because i want to love somebody when i try sex and do you people here think i am weird because i think that way? my friend is a boy and i am a boy to.

[Stryker125]

Don't worry, you're not weird. I want to be in love when I have it too, it's not a bad thing. As far as "messing around", that's not necessarily a bad thing either. It's perfectly fine to experiment with other guys, and you don't have to have sex if you don't want to.

[Foamy]

He probably just wants to experiment. If you aren't comfortable doing it then don't. He should understand. Don't think you have to do anything.

[Dyl.l.]

I would do it to see what I like.

[Michigan48111]

It's not weird at all. If you want to fool around with another guy your age, and you are both cool with it, its ok to do and it doesn't mean for sure you are gay. Just enjoy it and remember you are young and a lot of things can change.

[garrettu]

It's normal to be nervous, u don't have to do it tho if ur not up 4 it

[ExhibitG]

are you sure he even wants sex? "messing around" tends to just mean foreplay. but if he does want sex and you don't, then don't have sex. plain and simple. your intuition comes first.

[Jonny Caselli]

i did not do sex before but a friend of mine wants to mess around a little bit and im a little scared because i want to love somebody when i try sex and do you people here think i am weird because i think that way? my friend is a boy and i am a boy to.


Ok = I am 13 and yes I do mess around with guys my age or a bit older - love does not come into it - we like each othre as mates -

Many young guys will messa round with others - maybe siblings maybe freinds.

But many do not fact.

You can decide for yourself how it should be - but DO NOT FEEL PRESSURED or BULLIED into anything

[sportsguy17]

Only do what u want to do, as for what your doing is completely normal as u r just experimenting...enjoy