Kind of confused... help?

[rpgnut555]

Okay so, I'm 16 years old, a virgin, and I do love girls, absolutely. I masturbate about them, and I have only had crushes and obsessions with girls. Heck, when I was very young, I'd sometimes flirt with adult women and I even kissed one without even thinking. Sometimes I even fall asleep at night thinking about women and it feels so amazing and surreal at times.

However, I do sometimes have these thoughts about other guys. The thing is, it's not even kissing, or blow jobs, or whatever. I would never want to do anything like that with a guy. I just sometimes have thoughts about other guys. To be specific, I find wrestling to be entertaining and it can give me a hard-on. However, that's the extent of it. Nothing else. Anything else with a guy I find gross. I don't even kiss family members of mine who are guys on the cheek because it feels so weird and disgusting. However, I do get easily entertained with these thoughts, and wrestling does have to do a lot with touching and contact...

What does this mean? Does this mean that I basically need to start being more sexual with girls and my body wants contact with another human being?
I do like aggressive contact. When I think about girls, it's aggressive. So based on my analysis, I think that's what it is, but I'm not sure.

Any help from you guys? Thanks.

[paterico]

I think you're straight but curious, you said it yourself, you like girls and not guys. Maybe wrestling's just a fetish of yours, aha.

[Jonny Caselli]

Okay so, I'm 16 years old, a virgin, and I do love girls, absolutely. I masturbate about them, and I have only had crushes and obsessions with girls. Heck, when I was very young, I'd sometimes flirt with adult women and I even kissed one without even thinking. Sometimes I even fall asleep at night thinking about women and it feels so amazing and surreal at times.

However, I do sometimes have these thoughts about other guys. The thing is, it's not even kissing, or blow jobs, or whatever. I would never want to do anything like that with a guy. I just sometimes have thoughts about other guys. To be specific, I find wrestling to be entertaining and it can give me a hard-on. However, that's the extent of it. Nothing else. Anything else with a guy I find gross. I don't even kiss family members of mine who are guys on the cheek because it feels so weird and disgusting. However, I do get easily entertained with these thoughts, and wrestling does have to do a lot with touching and contact...

What does this mean? Does this mean that I basically need to start being more sexual with girls and my body wants contact with another human being?
I do like aggressive contact. When I think about girls, it's aggressive. So based on my analysis, I think that's what it is, but I'm not sure.

Any help from you guys? Thanks.

often guys feel aroused with no sexual image or contact, thats hormones and puberty for you. Usually there can be things as you descibe like feeling aroused watching wresteling - I thinks its a case really of your dick and your brain being miles apart and all the conncetions are not ready yet. As one guy said to Puberty is like taking an old PC stripping it down rebuilding it with loads of new stuff software hardware ancillaries etc - it takes time to get it a working together. So getting aroused at watching guys does not mean your gay and how you feel about all these things may change over time as you become more mature

[Keith11232]

Im sure your straight but your proboly just a little curious cuz i feel the same way too

[cerney]

maybe just curious or a fetish, idk your fine though

[West Coast Sheriff]

It sounds like ur straight just a little curious nothing wrong with that

[FunGuy-]

It pretty much means that ur a teen boy with hormones

[justin123]

yeah you might be a little curious