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christer
August 5th, 2012, 12:10 AM
Hey guys I'm just feeling really down lately my girlfriend of six months broke up with me recently just out of the blue for no reason we had been at one of her nephews birthday party the day before and everything had been fine then the next day it was just over. She then started telling me that I never meant anything to her and that it was just a game she told me she cheated on me with four different people and that she only ever used me for sex.

And that was what hurt most I lost my virginity to her earlier in the year and that was a huge moment for me and to hear all that stuff she said that she only used me that we meant nothing it hurt so much thinking that all the fun we had together all the special moments were all just a lie.

I just feel so lonely and empty inside now I know that what shes done is bad but i just cant stop loving her and its getting me so down :(

Extreme586
August 6th, 2012, 02:26 PM
She really sounds pissed off about something, are you sure you can't think of anything that would have set her off like that? Anyways you aren't in a relationship anymore, so that's why all this mean talk is probably coming out. Try to remember her as she was when you were both together, it sounds like you had a lot of good times so keep those with you. Find a good place in your heart to keep them, and then do the hardest thing possible, move on. It sounds like she's not above hurting you anymore, she's obviously in a low place when she has to make you feel worthless. Just know that she had to be happy with you at one point, I sure as hell don't know anyone who would waste their time with someone they hadn't liked. Remember her as she was, and try your best to find a good starting point to move forward. Best of luck! :)

MemoriesLost
August 6th, 2012, 02:44 PM
Stab her thirty seven times in the chest.
WAIT- that's a bad idea.
She really sounds like a -explicit @[email protected] While it will be hard to get over her since it seems you really really cared about her, there's not much else to do. If she really did do all that and say it to you, she doesn't deserve the ground you walk on, let alone you. There may have been something she was holding back, though, so try not to think as badly of her as I do~ The best thing you could do from here is pick up the pieces and keep living. I hope you find what you're looking for.