Guilt

[UnknownBoi98]

So I have this problem. Everytime I do something sexual with a guy I have this guilt feeling! And I feel like I'm doing something wrong. As soon as I'm done doing anything sexual I feel disgusted with myself, and sometimes I wish I was straight . . Can anyone help me ?

[Kuntaw kid]

Your good man I feel the same way

[nicholas79]

I'm bi and I think that you shouldn't feel bad. If you want to interact with that person, I think you should think about it, but if you decide to interact with that person, don't hate yourself for doing it. ;) good luck

[Josh607]

I ha e the same thing.

[OregonStateDude]

Hmmmm, this is a tricky one. You say you are BI, so maybe you just like looking at guys, but touching one seems wrong to you?

I can't say I've ever been in this situation. I'm gay, my best friend is straight (mostly), and we still fool around some. And neither one of us feels guilty afterwards.

[ImCoolBeans]

Before I fully came to terms with my sexuality and accepted it I felt similarly. I felt dirty and wrong. After I was done I felt as if I had done something so disgusting that I couldn't stand myself. I came to understand my sexuality more (I'm gay) and it became more of a part of me than it had previously been and those feelings subsided. I don't think it's a feeling that lasts forever, it sure didn't with me, but if you're feeling that way then maybe you aren't ready to be having sex or sexual relations.

[LatinaVivit]

First off, why do you feel dirty? Is it because of religion, society, family? Let me know that and I can help you out:)

[MemoriesLost]

If you were straight you wouldn't be you. I have the same problem whenever I fool around with a girl. It sometimes helps to write down your feelings, but not to just write about all the things you don't like about yourself. Maybe even just write the qualities you really like in guys. It's the best advice I have ):

[Biscuithead13]

I know exactly how you feel :) I'd always think something was wrong with me and thats why it took me since 6th grade to figure out I was gay. I STILL have alot of guilt left over and its honestly probably gonna take me a couple years to fully accept myself.

[West Coast Sheriff]

Don't feel bad about that, u r who u r. Embrace URSELF. If ur gay then u r. Don't feel bad about it.

[UnknownBoi98]

You Guys Have Helped Me A Lot ; I Just Needed People To Relate To What I'm Feeling ; Thanks You Guys (:

[UnknownBoi98]

How do You Delete A Thread ?

[RoseyCadaver]

How do You Delete A Thread ?

You can't delete it, but you can always request a lock.

[UnknownBoi98]

How Do You Do That ?

[RoseyCadaver]

You say will you lock this thread lol, or PM them.

[Losing Sanity79]

I'm the same way. Don't worry, I happens.

[JimmyIsNowAMan]

Good luck, man. Those guilt feelings go away when you become more sure about yourself and accept who you are. After that, life gets pretty good.

[Aidoon123]

Well im that stage of my life where i dont know what i like. I think im bi but maybe just curious. I have watched gay porn but afterwards i felt horrible and empty as if i had killed someone. I dont know if this is just peer pressure or somethin but i do have a girlfriend and i think im happy with her. Besides it only feels right when its on the screen , thinkin of anal makes me kinda feel sick

[jojorob]

I feel it bro ive had that feeling not in a situation like this though but uhm i know its because of nerves you feel like its wrong your scared if you see them again and most-likely it may be because you think you might get cuaght i dont know for sure im pretty insightful though

[SuperCoolAwesome]

I know this is a really old thread, but I read it and could relate straight away. I do anything and I feel guilty. And I do the littlest thing and I feel really guilty. I can't enjoy HJs because of the guilt. It's so bad. But then I want to go further. But the guilt always stops me, so I'm stuck. Sorry for it being so late, but I could relate.

[DerBear]

I know this is a really old thread, but I read it and could relate straight away. I do anything and I feel guilty. And I do the littlest thing and I feel really guilty. I can't enjoy HJs because of the guilt. It's so bad. But then I want to go further. But the guilt always stops me, so I'm stuck. Sorry for it being so late, but I could relate.

Please don't bump old threads :locked: