Girls....

[drummerboi987]

Alright, Im 17 and all of the other guys that I go to school with are like "look at her boobs" or "check out that ass" whenever they see a hot girl... When I look at girls though I don't think or feel like that. I may think they have a pretty face but I'm not necessarily attracted to them physically... And girls at school that I have crushes on, I'm not attracted to because of their body or because I'm trying to sleep with them... I actually like them because of their personality. I feel really weird because nobody else I know is like this... Is this normal? Is anybody else like this? I guess I just don't understand the attraction to boobs and all that... idk...

[Rashard1997]

I know what you mean...i look at girls physically ,but when i have a crush on a girl its because of her personality. Good looks are just a bonus :).

[garrettu]

I am the same way

[LatinaVivit]

If you look at a girl and be like, "What a beautiful face," and don't go, "LOOK AT THOSE JIGGLY BOOBIES!" it just means you have class.

[cerney]

yeah man having class. everyone 'enjoys' good looks, but the lower class take that farther. also...teenagers man, your just more mature. im the same way, ive always enjoyed good looks but dont move exclusively on that.

[andrew2020]

I am attracted to a girls personality also, but I wouldn't date a girl who is ugly. I think it is good that you base love on personality rather than just looks. It shows how you don't judge a book by its cover.

[senior.2013]

Its how you are attracted. Girls usually respect that.

[FunGuy-]

You are ahead of most of the male race... You are a nice guy who actually values women. This will pay off in the long run

[nikkiewebb]

Dont feel wierd... be proud. That is love, not just physical lust. Kudos to u, man

[LSEagle2]

Exactly dude I agree with everyone, Its not all about physical appearance, Im the same way, It shows that you have a heart and just arn't looking to just get yours.

[rocklee96]

I'm the same. I'm much more attracted to a girl's face/eyes than body, and I'm more interested in a relationship than just random sex.

[Sean4U]

You're doing and feeling the right thing Kevin, guys that "demean" others like that are actually so immature....I'm gay so with girls I just like them as friends and hang out cause we share interests...but even with guys, I am attracted cause of their looks, sure, but their personality, how we click in other ways is most important...I just don't look at a guys crotch and think...he's hung I want him....that's crude

[chiliguy]

I'm like that too..

[jtk339]

TBH im the same yeh its a bonus if they have a good body but i like someone for who they are not what they look like or what they do .

Theres nothing wrong with it. Your just more respectfull to girls i guess:D

[Jonny Caselli]

Alright, Im 17 and all of the other guys that I go to school with are like "look at her boobs" or "check out that ass" whenever they see a hot girl... When I look at girls though I don't think or feel like that. I may think they have a pretty face but I'm not necessarily attracted to them physically... And girls at school that I have crushes on, I'm not attracted to because of their body or because I'm trying to sleep with them... I actually like them because of their personality. I feel really weird because nobody else I know is like this... Is this normal? Is anybody else like this? I guess I just don't understand the attraction to boobs and all that... idk...

I think a lot of guys say this stuff cos they think they should, feel insecure about thier own sexuality or quite poss they cannot think of any other perhaps more meaningful topic of conversation you know that might require an attention span of more than 5 seconds

[ExhibitG]

okay everyone above me seems to think you have class or whatever and it's totally normal.

let me be very direct with you. i used to be the EXACT same way. everybody talks about boobs and what not and i'd look and it wouldn't turn me on all that much and i'd prefer just not to say anything about it. yes, that does have to do a bit with me being classy because i do have respect for women, not being turned on by girls has nothing to do with class.

i now identify as bisexual because i really just have an emotional attraction to girls with little to no sexual attraction. i've been in love with girls and all that. on the other hand, i have a big sexual attraction to guys but little to no emotional attraction. i've never had a crush on or loved a guy, yet i fantasize about them.

if you are like me, and i suspect you are, you'll probably end up like this as well. there's not to say there's anything wrong with that at all, but i just thought you should get the wake up call because it's one thing to be classy around women but it's another to just flat out not feel any attraction to them.

[Dowlking]

just means your sensible, dont worry about it.

[West Coast Sheriff]

It just means u actually like a girl 4 who she is, many girls like that

[Dyl.l.]

Yea that's normal

[PleasureMe7777]

That show how much of a gentlemen u r :)