How Do You Tell If a Girl Likes You?

[Silverfist64]

I like this girl alot and I want to ask her out, but I dont know if she likes me and I dont want to break my heart. Is there a way to tell if she likes me?:(:confused:

[0=]

I suggest just talking to her and getting to know her for a while. Become friends before asking her out. A lot of girls think it's creepy when guys just randomly ask them out, and it really is. Your motives could be dishonorable as far as she knows.

[Silverfist64]

The thing is I do know her. Im like one of her best friends and I knew her every since she moved her. She had feelings for me before but I dont know what to do now.

[0=]

You need to sit down and think about your relationship. Does she seem to like you as much as you like her? Do you think she likes you romantically? Just ask yourself questions and if you think it would work out go ahead and ask her.

[questionz]

I think you should go for it. If she says no, a lot of times it will fade away shortly and itll be like it never happened.

[Palm kid]

i had the same problem as u and i went for it although i was pretty sure she didnt like me so i was ready for the no when it came we are still best friends and its behind us and good luck if u go for it

[byee]

Ah, the fragile male ego! You are not alone, my friend.

The easiest way to find out if a girl likes you is to go up to her and say 'Hi!' to her and see her reaction. if she says 'Hi!' back with enthuasiasm, it's a safe bet she likes you! Then, start up some small talk, nothing heavy, and after a short while, just say bye. Don't feel that you have to ask her out then, you might panic, or otherwise be awkward. Instead, just say something hopeful ( and easy) like 'I'll see ya!', and wait till next time.

[Serenity]

The easiest way to find out if a girl likes you is to go up to her and say 'Hi!' to her and see her reaction. if she says 'Hi!' back with enthuasiasm, it's a safe bet she likes you! Then, start up some small talk, nothing heavy, and after a short while, just say bye. Don't feel that you have to ask her out then, you might panic, or otherwise be awkward. Instead, just say something hopeful ( and easy) like 'I'll see ya!', and wait till next time.

And people say girls read into things too much?!?! Enthusiasm does NOT mean a girl likes you! Lol I'm enthusiastic when I greet everyone, but I'm not in love with the world :P

And from experience, the best way I've found to see if someone likes you is to just suck it up and ask them. It's hard as I-don't-even-know-what, but it's better than beating around the bush and analyzing everything, like the way they say "Hi!" Lol

[Silverfist64]

Thnx for all the help. Unfortuantly I dont see her until school starts. Wish me luck.

[CryingEye666]

wow dude
we both live in PA
and we both have the same problem
lol thats weird
and plus, i have to wait til school starts too
i dont know if i even want to ask her out though
cause i was sposed to do it last year
im 17 and i never had a friggin girlfriend, it sucks and life is boring as hell for me
but, who cares about me, so best of luck to you !

[Silverfist64]

Enthusiasm does NOT mean a girl likes you!

If it did then that means im in luck cause every time she sees me she yells "KEVIN!!!!". If she hugs me alot, does that mean i have some of a chance. Sorry for all the questions, but i need to know.

P.S. I think this is supposed to be posted in the relationships forum so can it be moved. Thnx

[Serenity]

You're welcome, and luck :daisy:

And hugs don't necessarily mean anything, either. I know a lot of girls who hug people they hate, just because they're huggy-type people. Again, don't try and read too much into her actions, some girls are just flirty without realizing it. The only way to know for sure is to ask her :)

[byee]

You're welcome, and luck :daisy:

And hugs don't necessarily mean anything, either. I know a lot of girls who hug people they hate, just because they're huggy-type people. Again, don't try and read too much into her actions, some girls are just flirty without realizing it. The only way to know for sure is to ask her :)

Valerie, you might consider the way your 'enthusiasm' is (mis)understood by those guys it's directed at!

We only have the signals to read that are given to us. If she yells your name and hugs you, you have to assume that she likes you. Those are pretty universal communications that imply affection. If she likes you in 'That' way, is another question. But, I think most would agree that people don't shout their names and hug them if they are repulsed by them, either!

I like my advice (LOL!). Kick it up a notch, but don't feel pressured to ask her out the first couple of times you see her. See how she reacts first.

[Serenity]

Valerie, you might consider the way your 'enthusiasm' is (mis)understood by those guys it's directed at!

We only have the signals to read that are given to us. If she yells your name and hugs you, you have to assume that she likes you. Those are pretty universal communications that imply affection. If she likes you in 'That' way, is another question. But, I think most would agree that people don't shout their names and hug them if they are repulsed by them, either!

I like my advice (LOL!). Kick it up a notch, but don't feel pressured to ask her out the first couple of times you see her. See how she reacts first.

Yelling your name and hugging you could also mean she likes you a lot as a friend. Like I said, a lot of girls are just the huggy-type.

And I agree that you don't need to ask her out right away- one of my mottos in relationships is that you need to build a strong foundation before you can hope for anything more. You have to be a friend before you can be her boyfriend.

[Rickyopah]

Most girls hate to admit they like someone to anyone but they're close girlfriends. Ask her friends, do a little snooping, you'd be surprised how eager her friends will be to tell you if she likes you

[Silverfist64]

Ask her friends, do a little snooping, you'd be surprised how eager her friends will be to tell you if she likes you

Youll be surprised how many times Ive asked friends of hers that are also friends with me to find out, but they always say like sorry i cant do that or whatever.

[Serenity]

Youll be surprised how many times Ive asked friends of hers that are also friends with me to find out, but they always say like sorry i cant do that or whatever.

Those are the good kind of friends :yes:

[Silverfist64]

Hey Valerie, congrats on becoming a moderator. Back to the topic. Thnx for helping out and all, but like is there any signs that i can look for.

[Randy93]

if you feel shy around her i guess you don't know her that good yet and you don't feel that confident being around her. and at my school all the girls hug me when they see me and that doest mean they are all my girl friends right? you should probably ask her out on a date one on one. take her on a roller coaster. they say most women are attracted to guys that like a little trill in their lives, (and shell probably squeeze you really tight if shes scared or if she likes you).
i find that it helps to treat a girl you try to get as your sister dont be shy to ask her out on dates or to hug. and i found out that when you give alot of hugs they eventually turn into kisses on the cheek.

PS. if you actually want to go for it i suggest something romantic like ice cream or even hot dogs, pizza what ever shes into thats affordable. then after the meal just stare into her eyes for about 3 to 5 seconds, give a small smile so she doesn't get freaked out and if she looks back and into yours and you know shes looking deeper that just your physical being your bond is getting stronger. make sure not to stare for more than 5 seconds. oh and i haven't tried this out but i heard on the discovery channel that if a girls pupils are bigger than normal something is going on with adrenaline or i dunno something like that but it means shes interested.

PSS. maybe it just works for me lol. but its worth a try

PSSS. if you look into her eyes and she says something like what are you looking at or whats wrong just say something like ... umm i dunno i never had a girl friend before lol jkjk just make up something like "oh nothing" or "sorry i was day dreaming" ooor "sorry i got lost in your beautiful eyes" umm well save that for later on in the relationship

PSSSS. try not to rush i know people say that you should ask her or you will never know if she was madly in love with you. and i m not saying thats wrong but on my opinion i like to go slow and check out the signs. That way i don't freak her out because when i was in the 8th grade i tried to ask out this girl and i knew her for 2 years and we were good friends and i just came up to her and asked her if she wanted to go to the disco with me and she said no then i just got so shy and up to this day i haven't really had a conversation with her.

PSSSSS. sorry for making it so long just got hooked to it like damn lol.

[Nikki15]

Well you should be best friends with her.When you are her best friend have a little chat with her and tell her your feelings.Thats how:D:yes:

[Serenity]

if you feel shy around her i guess you don't know her that good yet

Not necessarily. I've had crushes on guys that I knew very well, but I was so unsure of their feelings that I felt extremely shy and was constantly going over the things I said in my head to make sure I didn't sound totally stupid [I always thought I did :P]

PS. if you actually want to go for it i suggest something romantic like ice cream or even hot dogs, pizza what ever shes into thats affordable.

Lol may I ask who told you that hot dogs are romantic???

[Silverfist64]

There is a carnival starting today and does anyone think it would be a good idea to ask her out to the carnvial?

[kungfu77]

ya its eazy:D

[Silverfist64]

well i asked her and she said not right now but maybe later in the year. Thnx for the support VT but since i already asked her i suppose this can be locked. Its ur decision

[Aηdy]

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[Randy93]

Lol may I ask who told you that hot dogs are romantic???\

ok then take her to rome or take her on the titanic#2!!!!!!! helloooo we are kids not millionares!!!

[Silverfist64]

ok then take her to rome or take her on the titanic#2!!!!!!! helloooo we are kids not millionares!!!

i think valerie means like to the movies or like go to an amusment park and win her something etc. Personally i agree and hotdogs arent very romantic. Plus it sort of makes me look cheap. I mean honestly like $3.oo per hotdog.

[Serenity]

i think valerie means like to the movies or like go to an amusment park and win her something etc.

Lol indeed. I've seen teens with next to no money have very romantic dates that in no way included fast food- you just need to be creative. Something out of the box will impress her more anyway; yes, most girls will melt at a candlelit dinner with a fantastic view and sparkling conversation, but there are plenty of interesting and inexpensive ways to get to a girl's heart :daisy:

[mixedupfool]

Ah, the fragile male ego! You are not alone, my friend.

The easiest way to find out if a girl likes you is to go up to her and say 'Hi!' to her and see her reaction. if she says 'Hi!' back with enthuasiasm, it's a safe bet she likes you! Then, start up some small talk, nothing heavy, and after a short while, just say bye. Don't feel that you have to ask her out then, you might panic, or otherwise be awkward. Instead, just say something hopeful ( and easy) like 'I'll see ya!', and wait till next time.

I have a friend that does that, but it doesnt work.
I talked to the girl today actually, she was accused of being bipolar because she had different expressions and saying "hey" wasnt to enthusiastic. if the person had a crappy day they wont be all cheery now would they