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tonyforyou
August 4th, 2012, 04:22 AM
Me and my bestfriend are like Bros. We have been since 5th grade and we both are juniors now. He's 17 and I'm 16. He has three sisters. The oldest one (15) is the one I like. She is funny, beautiful, and all around the girl of my dreams. Now my friend/her brother is dating one of her friends.

Just about two weeks ago we went down the shore with his family. Her friends where down their too so she sometimes stayed with them over night. Nothing really sparked for me until about halfway to the end of the trip. (It was only one week long). I would start flirting with her a little and she would flirt with me back. The one night at a restruant my friend told her that I was prude. She seemed excited and interested about it, but she stopped herself because she thought it was bothering me. The next day her friends kind of ditched her for the day and she was with me and my friend/her brother. We were just all walking and talking until we by accident met up with her friends. She was mad and since my friend is going out with one of her friends he ran off with his gf in the group. And me and her were walking and talking right behind them side by side. And she was calling them hoes and sluts, because she was mad and we combined our names when walking. And one of her friends was joking saying that we were a couple (which we werent) and my friend/her brother said he would be fine with that.

So that was that night, and other nights I would carry her stuff and she would wear my hat. We even shared a drink, but with my friend/her brother too.

I'm going to skip ahead to about last week. And my friend/her brother slept over and he found out that I liked his sister. He said he would be cool with it and he just thinks that she thinks of me as a brother. And one thing led to another and I said i didnt care if he did or didnt tell her (but i really wanted him to). So like yesterday I asked if he told his sister yet and he told me that it would be too awkward for him. I really want her to know, but I think it would be way to obvious and awkward if I were to just text her right now.

I also cant stop thinking about her.

FreeFall
August 4th, 2012, 02:42 PM
He's fine with it so there is no problem. And don't have her brother be your messenger that's very awkward and would probably not score points with her for you.

"I think it would be way to obvious and awkward if I were to just text her right now"

If you want her to know you like her wouldn't that be good that it's obvious? Just tell her. The worst she can say to you is no you're like a brother to me.

tonyforyou
August 4th, 2012, 03:50 PM
He's fine with it so there is no problem. And don't have her brother be your messenger that's very awkward and would probably not score points with her for you.

"I think it would be way to obvious and awkward if I were to just text her right now"

If you want her to know you like her wouldn't that be good that it's obvious? Just tell her. The worst she can say to you is no you're like a brother to me.

I understand the messenger thing when its another girl. But they are siblings and are supposed to tell each other things. I feel like if I was in his position i wouldnt mind telling her that my best friend liked her.

And I'll admit, I'm not a bad looking guy, i'm a little above average and I feel like i'm funny and nice, but I lack with self confidence and I can be shy for when you meet me. But when you get to know me, I start to be less shy. But when talking to girls I feel like if I say something wrong then its over. And I also feel like they could do better me all the time.

FreeFall
August 4th, 2012, 04:39 PM
But they are siblings and are supposed to tell each other things. I feel like if I was in his position i wouldnt mind telling her that my best friend liked her.
That's nice but he's not comfortable with it.

And I'll admit, I'm not a bad looking guy, i'm a little above average and I feel like i'm funny and nice, but I lack with self confidence and I can be shy for when you meet me. But when you get to know me, I start to be less shy. But when talking to girls I feel like if I say something wrong then its over. And I also feel like they could do better me all the time.
Maybe you can work on that self-esteem before you commit yourself to someone? (:
Love yourself before someone else.