gay, or not? confused (shower?) please help!!

[ben.o]

When I was younger I went to the YMCA with a friend and his dad, we went swimming in the pool and when we went to the locker room afterwards he told me it was against the rules to not shower, so I followed his lead and we stripped down and showered and since he and his dad got naked so did i, but after a few seconds I got hard and he and his dad stayed soft, I remember him looking at my cock a lot during the shower as I was looking at his. No one made a big deal about it, but to this day I haven't been naked in public since, I think that since I usually shower in my swim shorts and change in the bathroom stall, that getting naked like that just excited me since I have never done it before, does this sound right, or could i be gay? I have always wanted to experiment with friends and i Jack off to gay porn, but I still like girls and are attracted to them, more mentally then physicaly, but I don't know what I am, I am confused and I don't know if this situation I was in means anything or not. Please help?

[Robbyroy]

I don't think the shower stuff alone means you're gay. That was probably just curiosity. But if you masturbate to gay porn and have the urge to experiment with friends it's possible you could be gay or bi. Or, you might just be bicurious.

[HunterSteele]

This doesn't mean you're gay. When you're young it's easy to get a boner from just about everything. If you're attracted to girls, then you're straight.

[FunGuy-]

You just got exited to see a big peepee... When u do it more it becomes natural and u won't get boners

[JimmyIsNowAMan]

You just got exited to see a big peepee... When u do it more it becomes natural and u won't get boners

What he said.

[Giles]

I think that since I usually shower in my swim shorts and change in the bathroom stall, that getting naked like that just excited me

There you go, you've answered your own question. No one act, or thought can 'make' you gay. You say that you're more emotionally attracted to girls but you watch gay porn, there's every chance that you're bi - or you might just be curious about everything. We can't tell you what sexuality you are, be patient and you'll work it out eventually.

[Ohthatguy45]

Ur probaly bi.

[Manifest]

Ur probaly bi.

Yeah, I'd go by what this guy says...I can tell he's credible because of his awesome grammar. /sarcasm. By the way, that's P-R-O-B-A-B-L-Y.

OP, you don't decide if you're gay based on an experience like this. You were younger and when hormones start going, you get an erection at the sight of anything. If you're attracted to women, then you're obviously straight.

[frankrocky]

I think your erection was just the result of being naked in public for the first time. That doesn't make you gay. If you are interested in girls then you should explore that avenue and see where it goes. You are still growing up and are just a bit curious. Perfectly normal.

[Michael Anthony]

boning in the shower does not make you gay.
try showering again and see what happens. now that you are older your hormones might have calmed down.

[Giles]

If you're attracted to women, then you're obviously straight.

That's not true at all.

[cerney]

doesnt make you anything really, your a teenager (i hope), if so your super horomonal...you shouldnt base much on that ONE encounter

[wrestlehockey]

The shower doesnt make you gay, you were just curious, and your hormones make you do and want things that you don't necessarily keep doing for the rest of your life.

[AsianAnime]

If you like a girl then your fine. Your just curious

[PleasureMe7777]

Mabe BI? Depends how old u were i guess.

[AndroidGayTeen]

you can only be curious or Bi that's all

[justin123]

you just sound curious

[The Flash]

doesnt mean ur gay

[minecraftmstr]

you need to be emotionaly and physicaly attracted to be gay ur cool man

[thegermanjonas]

you could be bi and its cooll, just experiment with guys and you´ll find out what you like and what not

[Stephan]

In my honest opinion, no I don't think your gay.

What happened to you was just situational, in which you may have been thinking thoughts that simply stimulated you to have an erect penis whilst showering with other people.