Mixed signals, or im I just crushing..?

[Josh607]

So there is this guy. I'm pretty sure he is gay, like 98.765% He has the stereotypical signs. Not to be offensive to anyone. He text me a lot, and is pretty open about his family, friends, and other stuff. The thing is sometimes he text me crazy replys in 2 seconds, and sometimes for 2-3 days he'll ignore my text. He doesn't talk to me at school much besides a "Hi"

Any input?

[Inventor2]

Yeh. Ask him if he is, tell him u r gay also b4 you ask

[RCT109]

Preston said it right tell him you are and them ask

I know at my school [Churchill in san antonio] there are many guys that look gay and some that are that dont so you are better to ask
but tell first

[ashdyn]

If he's texting you like texting you, I guess that counts as "talking" so I'm pretty sure it's safe to say he's gay/bi. But don't assume. If you want to go further make sure you're on the same page lol

As for him being off and on about texting you back...I think he deserves a pass on that. What if he just doesn't know what to say back. Or maybe he didn't see your text right away and then felt awkward answering to something that obviously no longer matters to the convo cause he already missed it.

This leads me to the last part. If you said he texts you a bunch and y'all can talk easily to each other through text and stuff (he opens up about family, friends, etc) maybe he's just an awkward person. Not like weird or anything but just not good at public speaking. I know I'm much better at expressing myself through text than I am at saying what I'm thinking. I'm not shy, just I think I think too fast for me to get everything out coherently. I don't think he's being standoff-ish with you I just think you need to pick up more of the conversation til he opens up some more. Then it should flow naturally. Just get him started lol good luck!