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Cablez
August 3rd, 2012, 05:00 PM
Ok so today I heard this girl who is 13 who is going 14 in a week or so likes me, and I kind of like her too but I thought she was older. I'm 16 and I think it's a bit big of an age gap. What do you think?
PinkFloyd
August 3rd, 2012, 05:04 PM
Well if she looks older than 14 and closer to 16 than id say you're good. :)
FreeFall
August 3rd, 2012, 05:04 PM
If you're not comfy with it, don't do it.
14 and 16 isn't that far in age. But it depends on your maturity levels too.

I think it's ok (:
BrittneyB
August 3rd, 2012, 06:42 PM
If you're not comfy with it, don't do it.
14 and 16 isn't that far in age. But it depends on your maturity levels too.

I think it's ok (:

basically what she said :D 14 and 16 are pretty close, but everyone's different. If you like her and she likes you, go for it.
ashdyn
August 4th, 2012, 03:13 AM
It's a bit different to be 16 and dating a 14 year old than it is to be 18 dating a 16 year old lol idk why...probably different maturity levels I guess.

But as a general rule, 2 years up or down and you're good :)
Mortal Coil
August 4th, 2012, 06:49 AM
It's fine, just try to keep the sexual stuff to a minimum.
Foamy
August 4th, 2012, 07:10 AM
Don't do it if you're not comfortable.
Scotland
August 4th, 2012, 07:11 AM
I go by the 2 year rule, if your comfortable go for it though :)

-Scotland
Michigan48111
August 4th, 2012, 08:34 AM
I don't think it's too big of a gap. IF you like each other go for it.
Inventor2
August 4th, 2012, 08:40 AM
2 years is nothing! So go for it! Ask you parents how old they are, i bet it will be more then 2 years
Empty Spaces
August 4th, 2012, 12:16 PM
I think thats ok. It's nothing compared to my parents, my dad is 9 years older than my mom. so.. yeah.
Thunduhbuhlt
August 4th, 2012, 01:29 PM
As long as the maturity levels are high enough and she's comfortable with is, it should be no problem. But like Alex said, not sexual stuff for now.
Dake
August 4th, 2012, 01:38 PM
For love has no boundaries !
West Coast Sheriff
August 4th, 2012, 01:56 PM
Love cannot be measured in age but in happiness , if you care 4 her than go 4 it
ianc96
August 4th, 2012, 04:01 PM
It's no big deal.

If you were 36 and she was 34, would you be concerned between the gap?

That's how I look at it. Whether I should factor in maturity levels or whatever may be a good idea, but that's my opinion when it comes to that.