Whoa A Veteran Asking For Help

[WonderTastic]

I have been on VT for a while now and I never thoguht io would have to post a new thread in this section again but as I evole and go deeper into puberty and life I uncover somethings I would like answers to.

Okay my problem is that i dont like watching str8 porn. I mean i like it but i just cant really watch it fully and enjoy it. I wwwas rasied to always respect women and love and charish them. I was to put them on a ppedistol and treat them like queens. Well watching girls get slapped in the face with a dick isnt showing a women with respect. I mean i hate watching the guys cum on the females cause its rude and humliating. I have a mom and 3 sisters and everytime i see women in porn i think about them and turn it off. But if its gay porn i dont care. I dont have the best relationship with my dad and men to me arent worth the respect when should get and deserve (these are my opions). Its other reasons why i like gay porn too.

All in all i just wanted to know if anyone else has this problem or a problem with a certain type of porn and i know what the answer is to this question but am i normal.

Also im afraid that my respect for women might get in the way of how i feel about intercorse with them.

Sorry i have so much to post just this has been on my mind since forever

[Pizzahead]

I feel the same that's why I don't watch straight porn lesbian or gay is better

[Giles]

Veteran? Bitch please... <3

I understand what you mean though, personally I don't watch straight porn because I'm gay and it does very little for me. But from what little I've seen it can be very, very demeaning. That's not to say that gay porn isn't at all, but generally... If you can't watch general straight porn then you might want to try amateur content, there's quite often a genuine relationship between the people and that can show through the sex, just a suggestion.

[WonderTastic]

thanks guys i thoght i was the only one lol I should know better by now but everyone has those moments were they feel no one else is in there shoes.

[FunGuy-]

Wat u say makes sense

[andrew2020]

I am not big on porn at all. I watch it once in a while. I understand what you mean how the women in it are being demeaned and that isn't right. It is a show and when I am older I surely will not do that. I can see for that reason why you do not like it. I would just avoid watching it if you do not like it.

[billia]

I think someone mentioned it already, but you could try lesbian porn.

Unless that's what you meant with gay porn. 'Cause with lesbian porn, you don't have any of the "disrespect". I'm gay, but I occasionally watch straight porn. And sometimes, I find straight porn that isn't all about treating the girl like she's nothing more than crap. They were intimate. You could try narrowing your search results...

[zachc]

exact same reasoning

[cerney]

i suppose if it makes you feel that way, then...but really, its human nature. dont beat yourself up..and its your call, in the end, only you can decide..

[senior.2013]

Its normal. Some of it I watch I feel its degrading. But just dont watch that video, sadly there isnt anything we can do. Dont beat yourself up.

[ggguy9009]

I feel the same way. It is totally demeaning to women in porn but i dont mind it in gay porn

[irishguy123]

you are quite right

[Jonny Caselli]

I have been on VT for a while now and I never thoguht io would have to post a new thread in this section again but as I evole and go deeper into puberty and life I uncover somethings I would like answers to.

Okay my problem is that i dont like watching str8 porn. I mean i like it but i just cant really watch it fully and enjoy it. I wwwas rasied to always respect women and love and charish them. I was to put them on a ppedistol and treat them like queens. Well watching girls get slapped in the face with a dick isnt showing a women with respect. I mean i hate watching the guys cum on the females cause its rude and humliating. I have a mom and 3 sisters and everytime i see women in porn i think about them and turn it off. But if its gay porn i dont care. I dont have the best relationship with my dad and men to me arent worth the respect when should get and deserve (these are my opions). Its other reasons why i like gay porn too.

All in all i just wanted to know if anyone else has this problem or a problem with a certain type of porn and i know what the answer is to this question but am i normal.

Also im afraid that my respect for women might get in the way of how i feel about intercorse with them.

Sorry i have so much to post just this has been on my mind since forever



I m 13 and on the few times I have seen straight porn I di not enjoy it and kinda wondered why , but I think I feel the same as you - it might nit represent the whols porn industry but we know many woman are exploited and many films do not use condoms etc.

If you watch gay porn and it works as in helps masturbation then thats ok it does not mean you are gay or will become gay.

Also you mention intercourse and how you might feel but then may well be in a loveing relationship so you will be ok.

I ll add you on this

[WonderTastic]

I've been on hear for some years. I just don't post as I should so I think I reached veteran status I'm just not legendary

[Pipo]

porn is suppose to be fake and might be even aimed to certain type of viewers...

you might want to find some websites that have home made videos of porn. I mean like really home made where people upload the porn of themselves to the website not some "home made porn" which is actually made in studio or something.

Generally I sometimes don't like going with porn at all I just use my head to make scenes. From what you said you don't like that they do that stuff to women it means that when you're going to have sex with your girlfriend you most likely won't be doing that stuff at all and have sex with respect.

Remember if you watch gay porn it doesn't make you gay, gay is sexuality not based what you watch from net and wank to. . .

Honestly I don't like much watching porn at all cuz of those reasons in gay porn too it's hard to find some porn I like to watch. . . sometimes the guys aren't cute at all, you can clearly see it's fake love etc stuff makes me just puke cuz I know it's not that...