Staying in the closet my whole life.

[DontKnow]

Alright, seeing how my family always say "They hate fags" or something similar and knowing that I'm bi upsets me. I get so emotional when I think about it. I just wanna be straight! I don't wanna have attractions to boys, I wanna be with a girl. It's just weird, when I watch gay porn I get more attracted to it then straight porn. And when kissing boys I find it better then kissing girls. I need help! :what:

[Stryker125]

First of all, you like who you like. There's no way around that. Second, if you're bi, you can still have relationships with girls. Also, you're only 13. It's safe to say that you're unsure of your sexuality right now. It's possible you might be bi or gay, but at this stage in puberty, your hormones are absolutely insane, and it's completely normal to get attracted to boys as well as girls. Try not to worry too much about it.

[LatinaVivit]

1. Calm down.
2. Wait until you move out, become financially responsible, and then think about coming out. Because you'll be on your own, you won't have to worry about being homeless, abused, etc.
3. Try and educate them! Show them that being gay doesn't mean you won't be a normal person. Show them you're like everyone else!

[Christheman]

Your family must really dislike the homosexual population by using the word "hate" and "fag". But maybe if they knew that you were gay they would except you. But dont tell them yet. Just when they are talking about their "hate" for gays ask them what they would think if you were gay and if they say they are ok with it but if they say they would disown you, then do what LatinaVivit said....

As for liking boys, you cant change your sexuality