View Full Version : depression cuz of being virgin?
Pipo
August 2nd, 2012, 02:42 PM
does anyone else get/are depressed cuz they're virgin? What I mean is sometimes I get these phases that I get randomly depressed cuz I'm still virgin. Sometimes I just go months without thinking about it all and be happy etc living healthy. Mostly the depression lasts a day on tops or few hours. I think I'm still virgin cuz I really want to have my first time with a guy I really love and want to be in relationship share a life. I don't want to try out stuff with a friend or something...
just wondering does anyone else feel same way or almost some way?
bigfoot
August 2nd, 2012, 02:52 PM
i cant say ive ever felt that way... but theres alot of people that do.you arent alone.
StoppingTime
August 2nd, 2012, 03:11 PM
I can't say I personally have ever felt that way, then again, I'm four years younger than you. :P
It's something plenty of people feel, but I wouldn't classify it as "depression." If you want to wait for the right guy, then there's no problem, or shame, in doing that. There's no reason to feel upset about it, you just need to be patient. It'll take time, but if you don't want to rush it, don't let judgement get the best of you. If people judge you on that, then you really shouldn't have anything to do with them.
Stronger
August 2nd, 2012, 04:08 PM
I agree with Steven, nothing to get upset over, lots of people save themselves, and there is no problem at all with it; I wouldn't let it bother you, your young, you will probably find that guy, and I'm sure you won't regret it either.
Pipo
August 3rd, 2012, 03:01 AM
I can't say I personally have ever felt that way, then again, I'm four years younger than you. :P
It's something plenty of people feel, but I wouldn't classify it as "depression." If you want to wait for the right guy, then there's no problem, or shame, in doing that. There's no reason to feel upset about it, you just need to be patient. It'll take time, but if you don't want to rush it, don't let judgement get the best of you. If people judge you on that, then you really shouldn't have anything to do with them.
I don't really think about getting boyfriend honestly I just live my life go to school, hang out with friends, have fun etc, I don't really care the fact that I'm single at the moment or being virgin. I'm not searching for a guy from bars or anything I just do what I want and it comes when it comes? Then sometimes I get little upset that I'm single/virgin but then again like I said I can go like months and months perfectly happy without giving it a though at all...tho ya maybe it's depression...dunno I haven't really been depressed...:rolleyes:
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