Cuddle w/ bestfriend?

[John1796]

I just had a quick question! My bestfriend and I every time we hang out we sleep in the same bed, sleep in boxer etc. and we also cuddle. I mean it doesn't lead to anything! Now the question is do you think this is weird?

[Michael Anthony]

if you're comfortable with it then it's not weird.

[Philip97]

If ur both straight the cuddlings a bit weired if not its all ok

[Nathan650]

No it's not weird ^.^

[Jonny Caselli]

I just had a quick question! My bestfriend and I every time we hang out we sleep in the same bed, sleep in boxer etc. and we also cuddle. I mean it doesn't lead to anything! Now the question is do you think this is weird?


No its not weird to hug or cuddle your mate its a way we can show affection and closeness does not mean you are gay. Some guys think its weird that say when Mum gets me at the gym or I get home from school we hug and I know boys who would hate thier mum hugging them in public but its cool with me. I hug mates


Its cool man

[fast8]

its fine not weird

[DamoMac]

If you are fine with it, and he is fine with it, then I see no problem with it at all dude, completely fine. Snuggle your brains out dude =).

[Stryker125]

Not weird at all dude, cuddles are the shit.

[JimmyIsNowAMan]

My bf and i cuddle all the time. i love being in his arms when we wake up.

[cerney]

as long as neither you mind, then go for it, keep it up, whatever.

[John1796]

Thanks you guys! I mean neither of us have said anything to each other! I'm guessing he likes it too.. Thanks!

[Short Circuit]

Me and my bestie used to cuddle all the time, watching tv, films, meeting, saying bye, anywhere!

Its not weird, or gay to do it, it shows how close you are to each other.

[John1796]

Short circuit, I agree with you! We are really close! Play same football team, soccer team, do everything together!

[Unsolvedmind]

No its not weird

[senior.2013]

Nope. Youre both comfortable with it right? If yes then its fine.

[CuriousGuy17]

I think I'm jealous of your close friendship. I'd like to cuddle with my best friend, but he's just a little too uber-straight to be comfortable in a situation like that.

[Lovely637]

Nope. If you're comfortable doing so then there's nothing weird about it.

[curiousme]

umm lol ive slept in the same bed as a few of my bestfriends but weve never cuddled it is weird...

[ExhibitG]

I think I'm jealous of your close friendship. I'd like to cuddle with my best friend, but he's just a little too uber-straight to be comfortable in a situation like that.

same.

[Soccer-is-life]

I slept in the same bed as a few of my friends but like never spooned or cuddled with them

[kyler]

I wouldn't say its weird. I sleep in the same bed once in a while but way less cuddling type stuff now than a few years ago

[aslam]

i wishh i could sleep wiv my friends n cuddle them .... i wud love to suk their penises

[Gordo]

I call it weird, but in a good way because I don't think a lot of guys do it or are open abt it if they do it. So it's only weird in that not every guy does this.

My best friend sleeps over a couple days a week. We start out separate by a couple of feet when we're talking and going to sleep, but some time during the night, we get spooned. No problem with it. It's not like we do that while watching a movie or anything. It's just something that happens in bed. When we wake up, we even stay like that and talk a while. It's nice actually.

One time I mentioned to him that "this is nice" and went on to explain, "this, the waking up spooning, even talking to you now with our bodies like this, there's something nice and comforting about it. " He totally agreed. We don't talk about it. It's not like I'm proud of it, but I don't deny if someone asks where we sleep etc. So some of my other friends know. They teased me/us a little about it. I totally shrugged it off and they dropped it. I think they were just trying to get under our skin to see if we'd freak. I just told them, I don't see it as a big deal and it's actually kinda nice when it happens.

The girls I know thought it was cute and they guys I know dropped it and I think they did because they, like lots of guys here, are curious and not just about their sexuality, but about everything and wonder what diff stuff is like.

[chiisaiaoiryu]

Nope, nowhere near weird. So long as you both are comfortable with it, then feel free to continue what you're doing. The most important thing, though, is that you two don't feel it to be weird. If you don't feel it weird, then you're good.

[The realist]

If your both ok with it its fine

[habbohop]

All friends can give each other a few hugs! That's fine!
And sleeping in a bed together is fine too, as long as you're comfortable with it,

[Jarredm3]

I mean I personally wouldn't. But it's up to you. Go for it.

[ace8]

I do it with my freinds

[Stephan]

Just reading this makes me want to cuddle up with something hehe, its normal he's your friend and you 2 are probably just cold ;]

[daemon13]

we shared the same bed with my best friend like many times, but never cuddled. i guess it happens when you get too emotional and it seems like a sport. it's totally fine

[thaynjr17]

My best friend is a girl so it would've more awkward. I wish I had a guy friend close enough to even sleep over with.

[anymasy]

Hugging is normal but it's about culture. It's like kissing on cheek. In here we kiss both cheeks but somewhere else in the world they kiss one of them. Hugging is also like that, it is normal, everyone hugs in my country. But I don't know about yours.

[cpkid09]

omg i would love to do that with my best friend, but he is too shy i think

[Luke91]

Be glad you have a friend that you are that close to. Nothing to be ashamed of. Very normal and very good.

[Lovesbeingnaked]

Consider yourself lucky, I wish more of my friends liked to cuddle. Usually I only cuddle with friends when we're intoxicated

[NeutraltEAm4za]

Yeah, like others have said, as long as you are both comfortable then its all cool. It doesnt make you gay either if you are worried about that, it just means you are very close friends and you are comfortable around your friends. I would cuddle with my friend but he probably wouldnt like it so much :D Haha

[Mightybear]

this made me laugh but its cool to hug friends

[qwertylover]

It all depends on what you are comfortable with. Where I'm from, and this is just in our town (bit weird), we kiss strangers on the cheek and friends (male or female) on the lips. It seems odd but it's what we're used to. Whenever I sleep with my friends, it's usually naked and we do cuddle. There's just something nice about the way it feels to be naked with someone you trust so much. I don't see anything wrong with it whatsoever. :)

[Pyro99]

I think it's sweet that you're comfortable being so affectionate with your friend :) And, no, it's not gay.

[agentsuro]

if you're comfortable with it then it's not weird. Exactly!:yes:

[Moxacho]

Nah,It's not weird

[gig-guy]

are you both gay?

[Scottydog]

No it's not weird:)

[Jmac]

Me and my bestie used to cuddle all the time, watching tv, films, meeting, saying bye, anywhere!

Its not weird, or gay to do it, it shows how close you are to each other.

Me and my best guy friend cuddle all the time, it shows you have a close bond and you are together not gay just friends

[Jmac]

I'm in the same situation you are my best friend is straight (I think) but I have feelings for him we touch each other and have a more sexual relationship than most guys but I would like it to go further

[davidoff]

if you like it than it's no problem at all, but i guess you're not sure about it..
but it isn't weird, just the hormones dude

[Antagonist]

Personally, this is the cutest thing I've seen all day. It's actually kind of nice to know that that could happen to someone.

It's not gay; it's showing your affection to your bestfriend. I'd love to do this.

[PinkFloyd]

I don't see how it's all that weird.

[Terminal Verbosity]

Nah, it isn't weird. I think it's cute that you've got that kind of relationship with your friend. If any kids at your school think it's weird, it doesn't affect them so it's none of their business.

[spoke]

cuddle with my best friend all the time.

[ben.o]

What do you mean by cuddling? Like how do you cuddle with eachother?

[Diverperry]

It's fine I love cuddling and I cuddle with my friends all the time :)

[Cartor]

I've cuddled with my boyfriend but that is different. If your both ok with it then it isn't wierd

[deeda95]

if you are both ok with it than laying close in a bed or sitting close on a couch is ok, nothing weird bout it if you are both cool with it

[Max-xP]

Pèrsonnally, I never did, but if you are both comfortable with with it, then it's not kind of weird, just enjoy it ;)

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[ECSTASY]

in my own opinion, if you are straight , then yes it is but it may be cause of curious being...

[jojorob]

i personally couldnt do it but it depends on you comfort level with them, i sometime sit on guys and girls laps and they sit on laps more than i sit on theirs lol ........ big message is COMFORTABILITY

[alexkun]

no, is not. its actually pretty normal. i do it, well, used to.

[milestails]

if u and ur friend like to cuddle go ahead it not weird i pretty sure every guys cuddles with guys and or girls it normal

[CoNnOrE]

its fine i love cuddling i cuddle my friends all the time :)

[Row your]

Don't it with non best buds for athletics and band

[Jordan14]

I don't think its wierd, me and my friends cuddle all the time during sleep overs. We're usually naked too lol.

[BakeBake]

One time I have slept with a friend in bed, but we didn't spoon or anything, but one time me and him were just laying on the couch watching tv and he got up and lied on me and then we started spooning. it was fun! And I don't think that it is either awkward or gay.

[showoffboy]

i think its sweet! and if it leads to something, that is ok too!

[billybigfish]

I just had a quick question! My bestfriend and I every time we hang out we sleep in the same bed, sleep in boxer etc. and we also cuddle. I mean it doesn't lead to anything! Now the question is do you think this is weird?

if i knew people that were cool with it i would do it. but i hug most of friends anyway

[ramgoat647]

I don't think that every guy will be comfortable doing that but its not weird. Don't worry about it. Although it either of you have a girlfriend you might want t refrain from cuddling. :P

[Anakin99]

I've cuddled with my best friend before and we usually just sleep in our underwear... also my little brother when he sleeps in my bed, and him and i both sleep in our briefs

[Tiggz]

Nahh its not weird just to people who are close enough to do it. kinda jealous of you :P

[teenuser101]

There's nothing wrong with sharing a bed and sleeping in underwear or naked. But the fact that you are cuddling suggests that you might have feeling for each other - meaning you are gay - but there is still nothing wrong with that if you are both comfortable.

[BakeBake]

Me and my friend cuddle most of the time too, and during sleep we kinda end up spooning, but I don't think cuddling or even spooning is weird at all...

[NSoKShannon]

Nope, not weird