Lesbian or bi ?

[davidav]

Why girls who say that they are bi are often 99% lesbian. I mean it is very rare to meet a girl who is really 50% straight, 50% lesbian. And it seems that it's the same for bi boys, that often means gay

[Giles]

I don't think you're phrased yourself very well. More often than not bisexual people have a preference between the two but I wouldn't have said that "girls who say that they are bi are often 99% lesbian".

[FullyAlive]

Sexuality is fluid I don't think anyone is 100% straight, I don't think any bi sexual person is 50% one 50% the other, often they favour one sex and I don't think anyone is 100% gay.
I think we're all unique in our sexuality all at different places on the spectrum but I really don't think anyone is 100% one definite sexuality.

So now in answer to your question often people come out as bi when they're still realising their sexuality, they have yet to realise that they are gay. Or sometimes people think they'll be more accepted as bi, and use it as a sort of 'transition' phase, kind of working they're way up to coming out properly.

[davidav]

maybe but I don't agree with "I don't think anyone is 100% straight" because I am ! I'm not into boys at all !

[ClaireMarie]

I don't agree with what you say, because I'm bi and I think I prefer 60% girls and 40% boys ^^

[Sean4U]

Sexuality is fluid I don't think anyone is 100% straight, I don't think any bi sexual person is 50% one 50% the other, often they favour one sex and I don't think anyone is 100% gay.
I think we're all unique in our sexuality all at different places on the spectrum but I really don't think anyone is 100% one definite sexuality.

So now in answer to your question often people come out as bi when they're still realising their sexuality, they have yet to realise that they are gay. Or sometimes people think they'll be more accepted as bi, and use it as a sort of 'transition' phase, kind of working they're way up to coming out properly.

Very well put. Although I consider myself gay, I guess there might come a time that I might want to be with a girl. As of yet I haven't wanted to, but I never would say never. We usually are attracted to one gender more than the other, but I agree that NO ONE is 100% one definite sexuality

[ianc96]

There is no definite formula to determine one's sexuality. Maybe one is attracted to the opposite sex, but doesn't want to admit it and make it permanent.

[randomnessqueen]

being bisexual doesnt have to do with being 50percent one and the other. it has to do with being attracted to both males and females

[Wayne92]

I think everyone has a mix. I see myself as straight without a doubt, but certain things require a level of homosexuality but not enough to actually consider being with another guy. For example, a straight guy, determining if another guy is good looking/attractive or not. If a guy was 100% straight, he would be incapable of doing so. Same applies to girls, to be honest, I think ALL girls have a fair amount of lesbian in them. You girls can do some stuff with each other and not think anything of it, whereas us guys would never fathom of doing.

[Lovely637]

It depends on the person actually but only they knows what they really feel towards their gender.

[JessDaly]

Where are you getting this information?

[KellyNC]

I'd agree that nobody can be 100% one way or the other, though you can still be straight even if you have a slight passing interest in the other. But I defiantly consider myself bi, and close to 50/50 too. I

[christina2707]

I am bi and I would say 40% girls and 60% boys

[StephanieSanders]

Im lesbian 100%. But being bi is in my oppinion not something you can devide in 50/50 or 40/60 either you are or your not

[You.Know.What.I.Mean]

I'm bisexual, but i like boys only sexually.. But i can fall in love only with a girl. So i think i'm more str8 than gay

[StoppingTime]

:arrow: Teen Sexuality; this fits better here.

[horizonlooker]

I doubt that any bisexual person is 50-50. I know I'm not. And to say that most bisexual girls are 99% lesbian is completely false. I don't think there's really any way to tell. I think that even the person them self isn't completely sure on the percentage.

[Syvelocin]

Yeah, I don't know what bi girls you know.

I usually see it's the other way around, bi girls saying they're lesbian. It is often that some people just find it easier to focus on one gender even if they like both. I don't get it either, but I still see it a lot.

Oh, and straight girls who say they're bi. Seriously, a real bisexual or lesbian can pick you out easily. The reason lesbians watch gay porn. About 95% of lesbian porn is two straight chicks who look genuinely uninterested in anything but the orgasm with RED FLAG, inch-long fake nails.

But I'm 98% lesbian and I call myself a lesbian. Of course, I had to take time to realize that, though.

[The Mockingjay]

Sexuality is fluid I don't think anyone is 100% straight, I don't think any bi sexual person is 50% one 50% the other, often they favour one sex and I don't think anyone is 100% gay.
I think we're all unique in our sexuality all at different places on the spectrum but I really don't think anyone is 100% one definite sexuality.

So now in answer to your question often people come out as bi when they're still realising their sexuality, they have yet to realise that they are gay. Or sometimes people think they'll be more accepted as bi, and use it as a sort of 'transition' phase, kind of working they're way up to coming out properly.

Basically what I would say. Even though I identify as gay, I can't say I'm never attracted to girls, and I'm sure most straight men, no matter how much they say they haven't, have found a man attractive. I like the theory that everyone is born bisexual, but society pushes most of us into heterosexuality to fit the norm.

[Haleyzmont]

Im lesbian 100%. But being bi is in my oppinion not something you can devide in 50/50 or 40/60 either you are or your not

I am lesbian too and I completely agree ^^^

[mandyluvgirl]

im 99% lesbian i think guys just get jealous cause they get no attention from girls

[Twilly F. Sniper]

^Probably more like 100% lez.
I see stupidity in straight girls. They date the most disgusting guys on the planet, and also pretty much ask nicely to get raped also, a lot guys pretty much ask to lose all of their money to a slut. When I fall in love with somebody, guy or girl, I do it for love, not sex, not money, not anything else. Just because I love them. Unfortunately, most straight guys date girls for sex, and girls sometimes date guys for money. I find that the worst motive to date somebody. To put this straight, I agree with you, with guys, as well as have an opinion I want to share about the sluts called straight whores.

[jennahazy98]

I'm trying really hard to figure out what I am...I haven't really been with either boys or girls, but I think I find both attractive. If I do something with a girl am I lesbian?

[Giles]

I'm trying really hard to figure out what I am...I haven't really been with either boys or girls, but I think I find both attractive. If I do something with a girl am I lesbian?

Absolutely not. If you're unsure of what sexuality you fit into then simply don't don't label yourself (yet?), true it's a lot easier in life if you have a generalised label to describe yourself but it's not essential. You can decide that when you're sure.