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cmh861
July 31st, 2012, 10:09 PM
Hi everyone, Please don't make fun of me
I have a quick question. I was at my dad's gym today it's a Y.M.C.A. deal with a pool in it and my dad said that when he worked out I could use the pool but he said that when I was done to shower off. Well this group of younger boys I would say around 9,10,and 11ish came into the locker room (after there swim class I guess) and they where showering with me. I really liked showering with these young boys. Does this make me odd or beacuse i'm starting puberty it's natural? Please help me out i'm feeling so confuised! :confused:
Cicero
July 31st, 2012, 10:13 PM
Hi everyone,
I have a quick question. I was at my dad's gym today it's a Y.M.C.A. deal with a pool in it and my dad said that when he worked out I could use the pool but he said that when I was done to shower off. Well this group of younger boys I would say around 9,10and ,11 (after there swim class I guess) came into the locker room and they where showering with me. I really liked showering with these young boys and liked looking at there bodys. Does this make me odd or beacuse i'm starting puberty it's natural? Please help me out i'm feeling so confuised! :confused:
It's not really normal you liked looking at little boys. It's one thing liking to look at older guys (your age or older) but its another liking to look at boys who haven't even started puberty.
reakwells
July 31st, 2012, 10:14 PM
natural... if that waz me i would of been sucking there dick
cmh861
July 31st, 2012, 10:15 PM
It's not really normal you liked looking at little boys. It's one thing liking to look at older guys (your age or older) but its another liking to look at boys who haven't even started puberty.
Well what should I do. DO you think it could be a one time thing? Also I like looking at any boys or men naked
cmh861
July 31st, 2012, 10:15 PM
natural... if that waz me i would of been sucking there dick
In the middle of a public shower at the Y
Jtyler
July 31st, 2012, 10:19 PM
It's not weird it's just you growing
ManageX
July 31st, 2012, 11:00 PM
It's not weird as long as you didn't have the urge/impulse to do anything. I think that it would be safe to blame it on puberty.
cmh861
July 31st, 2012, 11:01 PM
It's not weird as long as you didn't have the urge/impulse to do anything. I think that it would be safe to blame it on puberty.
Yeah I would never touch a boy that young I just like looking at boys naked or even with clothes on of any age
LikeAJay
August 1st, 2012, 12:25 AM
i dont know weird but
West Coast Sheriff
August 1st, 2012, 12:29 AM
It might mean ur gay or bi and there's nothin wrong with that
Michael Anthony
August 1st, 2012, 12:47 AM
i've showered with guys of all ages, younger than me, and older than me, even guys my dad's age (including my dad) and older. it's good, nothing to worry about.
Cam_master
August 1st, 2012, 01:41 AM
It's all ok
War-Is-Real
August 1st, 2012, 01:49 AM
You could have enjoyed it, or modesty kicked in and you mistaked it for modesty.
WillGind
August 1st, 2012, 02:04 AM
I think it's pretty normal.
DamoMac
August 1st, 2012, 03:43 AM
Was probably just the excitement of a new experience for you dude, it's not that weird really. Everyone showers at a public pool so am sure you are not the only one dude.
Philip97
August 1st, 2012, 03:53 AM
It's ok coz ur 13 and just start although is try to not do it again
imagine95
August 1st, 2012, 03:55 AM
Your body is full of ragin hormones and testosterone... don't get the wrong impression as if you're some kind of 'creep' or 'pedo'. It was a new experience for you and I could have easily pictured myself in that sorta situation 2-3 years ago. Completely normal dude.
LiamShelley96
August 1st, 2012, 04:03 AM
yeah, i take an intereest in younger people like under 15
GaryKTM250
August 1st, 2012, 04:18 AM
all the answers are good, we have a garden hot tub and small pool. So i skinny dip with my uncle and cousins, maybe my cousins who are younger than me will have a mate along as well.
LDK Ven
August 1st, 2012, 05:20 AM
well youre 3-4 years older. its not that weird. it would be if you were like...18
Haydenn3
August 1st, 2012, 08:09 AM
not it isn't weird your young your raging with hormones and who is normal? what is normal?..:)
fast8
August 1st, 2012, 08:20 AM
its fine your ok alot of men shower together of all ages an im sure they all look
ianc96
August 1st, 2012, 09:44 AM
You're going through puberty, it's normal to think that, only because you're younger.
If you are going into college, then I would be a little concerned.
Jonny Caselli
August 1st, 2012, 01:27 PM
Hi everyone, Please don't make fun of me
I have a quick question. I was at my dad's gym today it's a Y.M.C.A. deal with a pool in it and my dad said that when he worked out I could use the pool but he said that when I was done to shower off. Well this group of younger boys I would say around 9,10,and 11ish came into the locker room (after there swim class I guess) and they where showering with me. I really liked showering with these young boys. Does this make me odd or beacuse i'm starting puberty it's natural? Please help me out i'm feeling so confuised! :confused:
Its ok really I am 14 and swim heaps and we usually just have a carry on in the showers after. Coach is always shouting and flicking us with a towel.
Its great you can shower with guys you might not know, loads of guys get all worried about stripping of speedos in a shower, but it like healthy to get clean and nobody wants chlorine on thier penis, so rinse off well
I just joined this site today so I will have my own questions to post
branman2000
August 1st, 2012, 01:50 PM
i wouldn't worry about it too much... i think you were just curious... lots of straight guys look at other dudes to either compare different things or just b/c we are all so horny! so dont worry about it... next time if that happens, just try not to look i guess... if you feel guilty about it...
JamExX
October 8th, 2012, 04:36 PM
Its probably just hormones.
jhan3
October 8th, 2012, 05:01 PM
not too weird just don't pull a jerry s
ramgoat647
October 8th, 2012, 05:25 PM
While it may not be socially normal to like showering with guys, it isn't wrong. You are just starting puberty and your hormones are making you feel a bit different. This is the time that you begin developing your sexuality and maybe you are bi or gay. There is nothing wrong with that. You just have to be okay will whatever your sexual preference is.
roquetking
October 8th, 2012, 06:15 PM
Normal
frankrocky
October 8th, 2012, 06:29 PM
Perfectly normal. We are all curious about other boys. It was probably cool for you to be the oldest boy in the shower room.
frankrocky
October 8th, 2012, 06:30 PM
Perfectly normal. We are all curious about other boys. It was probably cool for you to be the oldest boy in the shower room.
frankrocky
October 8th, 2012, 06:32 PM
Perfectly normal. We are all curious about other boys. It was probably cool for you to be the oldest boy in the shower room.
rguevara12
October 8th, 2012, 08:52 PM
Honestly its not normal as long as you dont get sexually attracted to them than u should be good
teenageapplelover
October 8th, 2012, 10:17 PM
You're not that much older than someone who is "11ish"--if your profile is correct in saying you're 13. If you were any older, and you were looking at young boys--it'd be really weird. but you're young. :)
zerosix22
October 11th, 2012, 06:00 AM
sounds normal with me. :)
STLACE
October 11th, 2012, 07:06 AM
Hi everyone, Please don't make fun of me
I have a quick question. I was at my dad's gym today it's a Y.M.C.A. deal with a pool in it and my dad said that when he worked out I could use the pool but he said that when I was done to shower off. Well this group of younger boys I would say around 9,10,and 11ish came into the locker room (after there swim class I guess) and they where showering with me. I really liked showering with these young boys. Does this make me odd or beacuse i'm starting puberty it's natural? Please help me out i'm feeling so confuised! :confused:
What I gather is that you enjoy looking at them because it gives you a sense of pride because you're able to show off you're development to a group who've yet to reach it.
That giving you a sense of security and not insecurity as you'd feel/get from our age group. Y! Msg me.
STLACE
October 11th, 2012, 07:08 AM
It's not really normal you liked looking at little boys. It's one thing liking to look at older guys (your age or older) but its another liking to look at boys who haven't even started puberty.
That's exactly where I was going with my answer.
STLACE
October 11th, 2012, 07:11 AM
Well what should I do. DO you think it could be a one time thing? Also I like looking at any boys or men naked
For the boys as long as its someone your age (and willing) should it become anything beyond looking. Govern your actions wisely and enjoy. I like it too.
stinkyman
October 11th, 2012, 10:09 AM
U said you are starting puberty so they are close to your age. No big deal!
TigerBoy
October 11th, 2012, 10:45 AM
Its fine. Its good for them to see older boys so they know what to expect. I have two little cousins who always want to shower with me when they stay over - kids dont think anything sexual of that stuff, but they might be intellectually curious about body changes.
As far as liking it, I think knowing that you are being looked at and possibly admired is bound to make you feel a bit proud or even sexy. Nothing wrong with feeling connected to your body and proud of it, in fact its really healthy.
redtukr
October 11th, 2012, 04:18 PM
i wouldnt say wierd but not normal
Sean4U
October 25th, 2012, 04:21 PM
it isn't as bad as you make it out to be...you're not that much older than them and if you are starting puberty its definitely hormones kicking in...plus they were probably watching you as well ....
NeutraltEAm4za
October 25th, 2012, 06:13 PM
I agree with the other guys here. Its just a part of growing up and is all normal. As long as you dont want to act on your attractions towards little boys, then there is nothing to worry about.
BelieberBoy95
October 25th, 2012, 06:34 PM
natural... if that waz me i would of been sucking there dick
Lol me too probably xD
Luke91
October 27th, 2012, 09:09 PM
Its fine. Its good for them to see older boys so they know what to expect. I have two little cousins who always want to shower with me when they stay over - kids dont think anything sexual of that stuff, but they might be intellectually curious about body changes.
As far as liking it, I think knowing that you are being looked at and possibly admired is bound to make you feel a bit proud or even sexy. Nothing wrong with feeling connected to your body and proud of it, in fact its really healthy.
I totally agree with TigerBoy. What better way for a young boy to learn than to see what an older boy looks like. It is good that you are willing to share. I also agree that it is normal and healthy to feel proud of what you have.
Swimmer12
October 27th, 2012, 10:12 PM
Its normal to want to shower with other guys and even be naked... as long as you dont do anything with them because they are so young and as long as they dont feel uncomfortable
robbymas23
October 30th, 2012, 02:10 PM
Nah man nothing wrong with that.
PrinceofBonAir
October 30th, 2012, 04:06 PM
yeah, i take an intereest in younger people like under 15
Hey, I,m curious as well, message me. 16yrs:cool:
Stephan
October 30th, 2012, 04:39 PM
You probably just seem to enjoy the company of others, and being able to reminiscence to your younger self when showering with them. I don't find anything odd about it, besides its a pool..aren't these sort of things suppose to happen??
irish_dude_16
October 30th, 2012, 06:50 PM
its nawt dat wierd dude ;L
Jaseeee
November 4th, 2012, 12:15 PM
It's curiostiy..
teenfromNJ
November 4th, 2012, 02:39 PM
That is completely normal! You are just starting to go through puberty and that makes your really curious about different things! You like to see what others your age look like down there because you are just curious!
Matt-_-
November 4th, 2012, 02:50 PM
i would have done the same thing
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