View Full Version : More Guy Friends?
kevoboy
July 31st, 2012, 09:41 PM
Ok, I am going to be blunt with it...I have NO guy friends! It's very irritating to always listen to my girl friends ask why I have no guy friends. I'm 100% straight, but every time I talk to a guy I enter awkward mode. I don't feel nervous around them or anything. I'm not really big on gaming or sports (although I enjoy playing volleyball). But I'm tired of hanging out with girls 24/7. I can't talk to girls about...girls, because they don't care.
Does anyone have any tips on how to make guy friends, and not enter awkward mode? Thanks for listening to my sob-story btw, lol.
Jtyler
July 31st, 2012, 10:22 PM
Not really just find something in common with a guy and start talking to grow friendship
cmh861
July 31st, 2012, 10:24 PM
When school starts up again join a club and meet some people. Every year i'm on are schools yearbook team i'm the photograher. I'm also the head of are schools first ever magic club that I started (yes i'm braging) and I meet alot of people in school clubs.
Jonathan1998
July 31st, 2012, 10:25 PM
Simple get to know some guys find common interests, and similar opinions and then try make friends
Tony223
July 31st, 2012, 10:40 PM
every time I talk to a guy I enter awkward mode. I don't feel nervous around them or anything. I'm not really big on gaming or sports (although I enjoy playing volleyball). But I'm tired of hanging out with girls 24/7. I can't talk to girls about...girls, because they don't care.
I have/had the same problem but then a guy from my math class started talking to me after we did a project together and now we go to the movies twice a month with his friends so now some of his friends have became my friend, but i still would like to have more though.
Anyway i really cant say how to get out of the awkward mode cause I'm still trying to figure it out, but you could join a club when school starts like the guy above said. Or you could try and scout out guys you think you have things in common with and try your luck.
LikeAJay
August 1st, 2012, 12:26 AM
i find it more easier to talk to girls.
West Coast Sheriff
August 1st, 2012, 12:45 AM
Most my friends r girls, I just don't get along with guys that much
U just have 2 b cool and u'll make friends, don't try so hard
Hope this helps
AwesumTEEN
August 1st, 2012, 02:03 AM
I'm exacly the same ! The ONLY friends i have..is girls.
"guy fiends"...well, they're not muture.. making stupid jokes and so on...
thats y.
but theres nothing wrong with having "girl friends"...
so dont stress... and chill! :tv:
imagine95
August 1st, 2012, 04:11 AM
just try and find some common interest and avoid getting involved with the douchey-prick guys lol
LDK Ven
August 1st, 2012, 05:23 AM
you dont have to be into sport or anything. im not either.
just be cool. you dont have to say anything special everytime.
be relaxed. try saying something fun and be pleasant company.
remember that not all guys will pe positive to you. that doesnt mean you have to change to be appreciated by all. some guys will want your company . that for sure. just do what i told you and you will find friends
War-Is-Real
August 1st, 2012, 05:26 AM
Wierd. I have never been uncomfortable around either gender.
ianc96
August 1st, 2012, 09:47 AM
Just make yourself go and talk to a couple of guys. Not flirting with them, but just go up to them and talk about sports or girls or something else.
senior.2013
August 1st, 2012, 11:07 AM
As said, just be confident and find something you have in common. Talk about games, sports, or even girls. Once you get to know someone you will be more comfortable.
Sean4U
August 1st, 2012, 12:20 PM
sounds like you are nervous around guys....just relax...as has been said so well, find something you have in common and just be comfortable around them...clubs would be good, in class just start up a conversation...i have friends of both sexes, but i to am more comfortable with girls, and most of my friends are from swim team, but also from classes .... don't try to hard either, cause you could stress then too....
AHSboy
August 1st, 2012, 08:46 PM
I know exactly how you feel. Honestly, I have no idea how I made the guy friends I have now. I met them either through others or on my own. If you feel awkward around guys, it could be because you're trying the wrong ones. Some guys could be the complete opposite of you, and you can get along with them better than those that fit your interests. I have friends that are complete jocks and they come just chill at my place, they come to the mall, to the clubs and we have nothing in common. Don't TRY and make friends. The best friends are found naturally and randomly. Don't be looking for them.
Lovely637
August 1st, 2012, 08:49 PM
Join with men whom you think has the same interests as you do.
Philip97
August 1st, 2012, 08:51 PM
I'm sure u'll be fine just try to mix in class then it may lead to out of class
cerney
August 1st, 2012, 08:58 PM
hang out with guys in class, JOIN A SPORTS TEAM (ik your not bigon sports, but that could really help, i think)..that really helps i would think
llogan1996
August 2nd, 2012, 02:21 AM
yeah sometimes u gotta escape girls with their drama but my advice is just dont be awkward , easy as that or maybe try to get into more sports or find something else to talk about
FunGuy-
August 2nd, 2012, 11:23 AM
Im the same way sort of... Just join a club lots of guys are in
rebeldrake5621
August 2nd, 2012, 02:30 PM
Guy friends are good to have to compare
drummerboi987
August 2nd, 2012, 02:59 PM
Find someone you have something in common with and you'll click
andrew2020
August 2nd, 2012, 03:49 PM
I think you should do these:
+Find a sport that you like and you will make friends on the team.
+Take clubs/electives that follow your interests and it would be a great way to meet guys who are like you
+School Projects that involve partners will help since you might make friends with that guy and start to talk with his friends to.
Try to do these they can have a possibility to help.
hilltop404
August 2nd, 2012, 04:03 PM
Give them all handjobs!
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