So Tired of Being Ug. . . . . .

[factboy01]

I'm so tired of being so damn ugly that no girl wants me at all i'm tired of it. . .i'm sick of seeing my own guy friends get girls and they tell me dude you're very good looking da da da da I feel like they're fucking lying I can't stand that anymore.

I really don't feel like being their friends anymore because of it. It feels like they rub it in my face. What they do tells me "look I can get girls so fast because I'm so hot and girls like that."

I'm really tired of it.
I seriously don't think I can have guy friends.
They always have better luck than me.
Actually I don't think it's luck.
It's just they're BETTER.

F--k it.

I want to cut.

[Foamy]

Whoa there stop in your tracks. Maybe you dont think that you have good looks but others do. Just try being yourself when trying to get with a girl. you're friends are wrong when they say that girls like hotness. Not all girls do. They want honesty, truth. People being themselves. You don't have to break off the friendships because f this.

[LouBerry]

I think that everyone sees themselves in a negative way, but I'd bet 10 bucks that other people see you waaay better than you see your self.

[DarkHorse4eva]

Maybe if you want to post a picture of yourself so the girls can tell u what they think. Maybe youre not that ugly as you think you are. And so what if you are ugly, the important is what you got inside yourself

[Christheman]

Maybe if you want to post a picture of yourself so the girls can tell u what they think. Maybe youre not that ugly as you think you are. And so what if you are ugly, the important is what you got inside yourself

Yeah put a profile pic and you'd be surprised. trust me someone has you like you

[Guillermo]

"look I can get girls so fast because I'm so hot and girls like that."

And they can get std's so much faster because they're so "hot and girls like that." ;)

If you have/had friends that are so self-conceited like that, then maybe you should look for friends that aren't. There are some guys that don't always talk about "getting girls" and their looks.

My advice to you is to find a girl that cares more about personality than "hotness". There are some out there; probably very few though.

[Lovely637]

Don't let yourself down. You're handsome.

[Iron Man]

Come on, your friends wouldn't lie to you about your looks. Hell, whenever I tell my friends I'm fat, they tell me differently. I'm starting to believe I'm just....me. But anyway, you shouldn't race to get multiple girls. Slow down, and go for just one. The best thing you have to do is be yourself, and you will find the right ones, that see you for your personality, not just your looks.

[Chaos42]

My advice to you is to find a girl that cares more about personality than "hotness". There are some out there; probably very few though.

.....telling the OP that there are very few girls out there that would like him for his personality is supposed to HELP him? Ya, no.


Anyways, OP-
Don't be so down on yourself man, I am sure that you're perfectly attractive, you just haven't found a girl who can appreciate you for the awesome person I'm sure you are. There ARE girls out there like that, and plenty of them. You just have to find the right one for you.

If your friends make you feel bad, or are conceited/braggy and it bothers you, then you probably shouldn't be friends with them- find friends who make you feel good, and give you confidence, because that's what friends are for (to HELP you); I promise there are people like that out there.

Please don't give up or hurt yourself. You have the most important means of being an awesome person- LIFE. You can be anything you want to be; you can do anything you want to do...you can become an amazing person, and I'm sure you will. Don't ruin your chances at that now because of bad friends and being inconfident.

[Guillermo]

.....telling the OP that there are very few girls out there that would like him for his personality is supposed to HELP him? Ya, no.


.... Well, would lying to the OP and saying "Oh don't worry, there's plenty of girls who will date you because they like you for your personality" help him? No...

I'm just trying to keep it real here man. I didn't say it'd be impossible for him to find a girl like that. Too many guys date girls who just like them for their "hotness" or "sexiness" and vice-versa. He's just got to be himself and eventually the right girl will come along. And anyway, he can take it or leave it. And I'm leaving it at that.

[Abyssal Echo]

Maybe if you want to post a picture of yourself so the girls can tell u what they think. Maybe youre not that ugly as you think you are. And so what if you are ugly, the important is what you got inside yourself

I agree its sooo true that its whats inside that counts. yeah good looks get attention but alot of good looking or hot looking guys are seriously ugly inside. give someone a chance to get to know the real you. then they will see ur a good guy.

[West Coast Sheriff]

Don't b so worried u might believe something wrong, mayb ur friends see u differently

[Sleepy Raisin]

Dude relax! You have forever to get a girlfriend there is no reason to freaking cut yourself. And since youre so worried about being 'ugly' cutting yourself will only nullify you being attractive.

Do you have any friends who are girls? Ask them. Ask them what girls like and and ask them if they think youre ugly or not, if youre that self conscious.

[Curtis96]

you may not be good looking to some people, but than you may be amazingly good looking to other people it just depends on the people that see you

[EpicXSuprize20]

bro if i can get a perfect 10 then anyone can

[missisabella]

Ok so I used to be pretty down on my looks. I never got too much male attention, no one ever really called me pretty. It hurts, I know it does.

But then, as I started flirting with a super hot guy and he started boosting more ego, I felt better about myself and started acting more confident. Then tons of guys started flirting with me.

It's all about confidence. If you think you're hot, so will other people (as long as you're not obnoxious about it!)

:)

[Caver]

Cutting won't help you being good looking nor will it help your moods.
You should try, talk to some girls and don't rush into things. Just be friends with some girls first - and i'm sure they'd love you for the person you are inside.

[hilltop404]

Don't let yourself down. You're handsome.

You don't know if hes handsome, u don't know what he looks like, so don't get his hopes up u d**che bag! That's right, go :cry: you liitle d**che b*g!

[factboy01]

You don't know if hes handsome, u don't know what he looks like, so don't get his hopes up u d**che bag! That's right, go :cry: you liitle d**che b*g!


Am I? :confused:

[Iron Man]

You don't know if hes handsome, u don't know what he looks like, so don't get his hopes up u d**che bag! That's right, go :cry: you liitle d**che b*g!

Can't tell if trolling, or seriously going whiny bitch on people at a help forum.

Anyway, OP, I'm sure you are just fine. Would repeat what I posted before, but too lazy to look back at what I said.

[TheHumanSpirit]

My advice: Don't try to be anyone you're not for someone else. Just be you, because you're amazing the way you are. You deserve a girl that will like you for you, and I'm sure they'll come around. Be more confident, trust yourself. You got this. ;) You might want to try flirting a little though. That way they know you're interested.