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Darkhorse
July 30th, 2012, 10:33 PM
Just wondering if anyone isn't out yet, but have a boyfriend or girlfriend? Does it make the relationship harder?
blackpo
July 30th, 2012, 11:30 PM
No but i know it does my last boyfriend was and still is mainly in the closet and it made harder because the fact I like being open with my relationship and being really open but I couldn't do that with him but in a way it is a real eye opener for some stuff that is in their life that is stopping them from coming out
Theyamyum
August 1st, 2012, 11:27 AM
No I wouldn't say so cause if you have them over at your house it just looks like your havering a friend over and it doesn't really matter as many people think you are just friends.
Meh Guy
August 1st, 2012, 07:41 PM
I don't but my gay friend does, and he seems fairly streesed about it. So, I don't know, but it seems to be more stress than coming out
Harley Quinn
August 3rd, 2012, 08:41 AM
I did before I fully came out, and it was a lot harder than I would ever have expected. I mean, it's a lot easier when you are out and you don't care what people think. It was always hard knowing that you can't actually be 'real' with each other.
UnknownBoi98
August 6th, 2012, 11:06 AM
I'm Hi ; But I'm Scared To Start Dating Guys . .
PleasureMe7777
August 6th, 2012, 11:07 AM
She isnt my GF but there are feelings there but we just cant act on them quite yet...Yes it makes things very hard.
Losing Sanity79
August 6th, 2012, 11:32 AM
I have secret bf, it is kinda hard.
BornInOblivion.
August 6th, 2012, 03:25 PM
I'm Hi ; But I'm Scared To Start Dating Guys . .
I felt the same way.
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