yankeefan7723
July 30th, 2012, 10:16 PM
Gonna try to keep this as short as possible.
So I'm talking to this girl who I've known for maybe a little over a month. Couple of weeks ago she got out of a relationship with a guy who I guess cheated on her or was flirting with other girls behind her back. He did this two times and got back with him after bother but the third time I guess was it. Their last go round lasted like 3 days. She messaged me on FB, she's a friend of a girl who I've also tried talking to but was too caught up with her ex also my best friend lol drama, and said I was cute. That was when we started talking.
You know that mutual friend I just mentioned? Well her and my best friend have told her a couple times that I was a really good guy and I like her and all that and we've managed a quite a few text convos but its hard because more often then not it's one word or short answers in general. But other times she'll put happy faces and be in a good mood. Like today she hit me with a "hey babe"...guess we've been kinda flirty.
Hung out with her for the first time, just us no one else, this past Friday. We went to the mall and while it started awkward it got good and we had a fun time. Told me afterwards that she liked me and I told her I liked her and we got "FB married" lol. She told me Saturday she missed me and wanted to see me. We were supposed to hang out today but never did. I've been letting her start all of our convos recently because I'm afraid of investing too much. The last three girls I got involved with hurt me. The first one cheated on me the day after we started going out, the second one I took to prom and she just straight played me, and the third is complicated but I probably loved her more than anything and we tried to make it work for 2 months but she's still stuck on my bestfriend who's moved on completely. The third one put me through the worst feelings of my life. All this in three months.
I feel like she's, the girl I'm talking to now, still stuck on her ex. She's posted tons of hateful things about him on fb, but on twitter just days before we hung out that she had a "good day with chris" - I'm guessing she means like talking wise - and that she's only excited for school to see if she has classes with him and she's on the phone with "him". I feel like she's doing the same thing to me as the last one. Stringing me along just in case but still wanting her ex. Just today she tried asking for a ride, just like the first one did - that same day she dumped me - and that's what set things off in my head. I don't want to be used, but I'm tired of being alone. I really like this girl and at the core we could be good together. She just dated an asshole so a sweet, nice guy like me would be perfect for her but I'm afraid to try.
Should I move on and find someone else or keep trying with her. PS - she lives right up the street so we could see each other anytime...another reason why I want her lol.
Edit: I guess these last three girls just got me into a mindset of every girl is gonna hurt/play me you know? It's hard to believe this new one is sincere.
So I'm talking to this girl who I've known for maybe a little over a month. Couple of weeks ago she got out of a relationship with a guy who I guess cheated on her or was flirting with other girls behind her back. He did this two times and got back with him after bother but the third time I guess was it. Their last go round lasted like 3 days. She messaged me on FB, she's a friend of a girl who I've also tried talking to but was too caught up with her ex also my best friend lol drama, and said I was cute. That was when we started talking.
You know that mutual friend I just mentioned? Well her and my best friend have told her a couple times that I was a really good guy and I like her and all that and we've managed a quite a few text convos but its hard because more often then not it's one word or short answers in general. But other times she'll put happy faces and be in a good mood. Like today she hit me with a "hey babe"...guess we've been kinda flirty.
Hung out with her for the first time, just us no one else, this past Friday. We went to the mall and while it started awkward it got good and we had a fun time. Told me afterwards that she liked me and I told her I liked her and we got "FB married" lol. She told me Saturday she missed me and wanted to see me. We were supposed to hang out today but never did. I've been letting her start all of our convos recently because I'm afraid of investing too much. The last three girls I got involved with hurt me. The first one cheated on me the day after we started going out, the second one I took to prom and she just straight played me, and the third is complicated but I probably loved her more than anything and we tried to make it work for 2 months but she's still stuck on my bestfriend who's moved on completely. The third one put me through the worst feelings of my life. All this in three months.
I feel like she's, the girl I'm talking to now, still stuck on her ex. She's posted tons of hateful things about him on fb, but on twitter just days before we hung out that she had a "good day with chris" - I'm guessing she means like talking wise - and that she's only excited for school to see if she has classes with him and she's on the phone with "him". I feel like she's doing the same thing to me as the last one. Stringing me along just in case but still wanting her ex. Just today she tried asking for a ride, just like the first one did - that same day she dumped me - and that's what set things off in my head. I don't want to be used, but I'm tired of being alone. I really like this girl and at the core we could be good together. She just dated an asshole so a sweet, nice guy like me would be perfect for her but I'm afraid to try.
Should I move on and find someone else or keep trying with her. PS - she lives right up the street so we could see each other anytime...another reason why I want her lol.
Edit: I guess these last three girls just got me into a mindset of every girl is gonna hurt/play me you know? It's hard to believe this new one is sincere.