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69_eyes
August 13th, 2007, 03:27 AM
I know this is gonna sound so mean and really dogg but hey here it is. Ive always tried to be a nice guy but this is really giving me the shits.

Ok well ill just start from the start. I blade, aggressive roller blade to be exact so iam down at our local bowl alot with my blading friends and one day randomly a kid came up and talked to us (his in yr7 at my school, iam in yr 10) we noticed straight off his mentally not right but we never held that agienst him and we talked to him and stuff. Now he thinks we are like BEST friends. I can tell he has either hardly any to no friends which means he is REALLY clingly, like he wants to go EVERYWHERE with us, like movies, to friends places etc. And his gotten my mobile number and always calls me to ask if iam going down to the bowl (which i normally am) and i dont have the heart to lie to him but i just cant fkn stand him when he hangs around. Now he is starting to hang around with us during school. Also when he was getting picked up one day he got me to meet his dad (:() which just makes things fkn worse.

He is so fkn rude, he trys to scab money and food off us and everything and his attude to everything is so like "give me give me give me". I just cant stand it, his one of those kid that u just wanna knock out. I know this sounds mean but he has a MASSIVE stutter wich also gets to me. He tries to do everything with us but we dont want him around. What is the easiest and kindest way to tell him to piss off.

P.S. this has gotten to the point where i dont want to go to the bowl/school cuse he is so annoying
And please guys dont just post stuff like "your a selfish vein.... blah blah blah" cuse i alreay feel like shit for feeling like this if u know what i mean.
:( thanks guys

Crazysam
August 13th, 2007, 03:59 AM
yeah i've also got a person who is two years younger than me and is all ways ringing me up to have pointless conversations! and belive me your not selfish for not wanting to go out with him.

First of all you say hes not mentally alright what do you mean by this?
The reason he wants to hang out with you guys is probally because he sees you as cool and wants to be like you! maybee he doesn't have an elder brother of his own. Or he could just be lonely and not have many friends. In any case don't get angry at him because he could be having a really bad time.
I would ask him is he has any friends his own age and if he dosn't ask him why it may be that he has like social problems or something.

69_eyes
August 13th, 2007, 04:13 AM
yeah i've also got a person who is two years younger than me and is all ways ringing me up to have pointless conversations! and belive me your not selfish for not wanting to go out with him.

First of all you say hes not mentally alright what do you mean by this?
The reason he wants to hang out with you guys is probally because he sees you as cool and wants to be like you! maybee he doesn't have an elder brother of his own. Or he could just be lonely and not have many friends. In any case don't get angry at him because he could be having a really bad time.
I would ask him is he has any friends his own age and if he dosn't ask him why it may be that he has like social problems or something.

when i say not mental right i mean he has some mental disorder, i not sure what it is. Could be skitaphenia(sp?) or could be something like Bi polar

Bobby
August 13th, 2007, 10:30 AM
Okay, well is he new to school? If he is, he might just be trying to fit in. And maybe he thinks having older friends will help him fit in. Give it a few weeks, and maybe he will lay off a bit. But sorry, your just going to have to wait this one out.