View Full Version : Am I gay?!
EdwardBi15
July 30th, 2012, 12:19 PM
Will I like gay porn and sometimes I think guys are cute but I like girls! I've messed around with friends before and like it! So does this mean I'm gay?!
LouBerry
July 30th, 2012, 12:21 PM
If you feel attracted to both, you could just be bisexual.
Christheman
July 30th, 2012, 12:22 PM
You could be bisexual or just curious : D
Stryker125
July 30th, 2012, 12:24 PM
Nah. Unless you have both a physical and emotional attraction go guys, it's a pretty safe bet you're not gay. I'd say bicurious or bisexual. Probably bicurious though. Try not to worry about it too much, hormones are crazy during puberty. If you still feel the same way when you're older and your hormones have balanced out, then you should give it some more thought.
lambo420
July 30th, 2012, 12:26 PM
Nope Not At All, Its Hormones. All good
Xandle
July 30th, 2012, 12:27 PM
Do you think you could see yourself being in an emotional relationship with a guy? If so, then you could be gay, although if you like girls, it's more likely you're bi than gay. If you're quite young, then there's a good chance that your just curious, which is natural.
boom17
July 30th, 2012, 12:30 PM
youre probably gay, i went through the same stuff and sure people can say its just hormones, but in the end im gay
West Coast Sheriff
July 30th, 2012, 12:45 PM
U cud b bi
ImCoolBeans
July 30th, 2012, 01:17 PM
Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality
Scotland
July 30th, 2012, 01:20 PM
As iv said many times on VT being gay isn't just about physical attraction, it's also about mental attraction and if you could actually date another guy or not. Liking gay porn or finding other guys hot doesn't make you gay, you could just be curious... Like most teens :)
-Scotland
War-Is-Real
July 30th, 2012, 01:33 PM
Bi, not gay.
However you could just be Bi-Curious. Just go with it.
waffle
July 30th, 2012, 06:45 PM
I watch gay porn, and that doesn't mean you are gay. Yes I am Bi, but unless you find guys attractive and would want to date one, you shouldn't consider yourself gay.
LatinaVivit
July 30th, 2012, 06:54 PM
Why are you asking us? Being gay is something you have to figure out by your own accord. People can label you as anything, but only you know/can figure out what you are.
Scotland
July 30th, 2012, 07:10 PM
Why are you asking us? Being gay is something you have to figure out by your own accord. People can label you as anything, but only you know/can figure out what you are.
That is a very very good point, well put sir!
-Scotland
DamoMac
August 3rd, 2012, 03:04 AM
It's not the physical actions you do that make you gay, it's what you feel inside yourself.
If you feel genuinely attracted to males, and would only wan't a fully committed relationship with a guy, then you may in fact be gay. But just because you may fool around with a male friend, or find a guy hot, does not make you gay in my eyes.
Hormones are raging, and curiosity in teenagers is only natural, and i think you fall under this same category. I would not stress about it to much, just take it as it comes and i am sure you will be fine dude.
I don't believe in labels myself, but if you were to ask me, i would not consider you gay. Hope i helped in some way dude.
Jamie
August 3rd, 2012, 03:10 AM
I'm pretty certain liking gay porn makes you at least somewhat homosexual. But really, why do you feel like you'd rather not be gay? Also, as we're taught mostly at a young age that hetero relationships are idea, far before we develop our sex drives, there's no way of telling. Maybe the experimentation with girls is something you feel you need to do as opposed to being aroused by it solely out of attraction and not hormones?
Drew5
August 3rd, 2012, 12:11 PM
youre probably gay, i went through the same stuff and sure people can say its just hormones, but in the end im gay
Lol @ in the end
Halcyon
August 3rd, 2012, 03:18 PM
No. You sound bisexual at the most, or perhaps even curious. If you're confused about your sexuality, don't rush to label yourself - it will become clear in time!
Caver
August 3rd, 2012, 03:29 PM
Probably bisexual and/or curious.
Cognizant
August 3rd, 2012, 07:36 PM
Ugh, just because you like gay porn doesn't make you gay.....
I'd say that you're just curious, unless you have emotional feelings to guys.
hilltop404
August 4th, 2012, 09:54 AM
U r kinda stupid! You said u like girls & boys, there's actually a word 4 this, it's called... Bisexual!!!!!! Duhh! Just obvious.
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