New Boy Friend

[Anna G]

I have a boy I meet 8 weeks ago while working very courteous and fun. Now I am a strong believer of no sex till married or over 18. He agrees with that and is also a virgin.

Now this is the issue he keeps looking at my chest and even asked politely if he can see my breasts. He says he never saw real breasts. Told him I have to think about it. Part of me wants to do it as its not sex but the other side of me says no.

What do you all think about me showing him will it be a positive experience between us ? :confused:

[jegoss02]

i am a strng believer of abstinence too. its all very personal but its not bad to do those things cause your right, its not sex. its only sex if he inserts his thing into your thing. thats it. now, you might get carried away and all horny and whatnot but just remember that keeping your head together is key in those moments.

[FreeFall]

You've got a side saying no. Unless all of you is saying sure go fot it, don't do it. He may want to see more, he may not. But you're not 100% with showing him your breasts, so wait until you are.

[Christheman]

You've got a side saying no. Unless all of you is saying sure go fot it, don't do it. He may want to see more, he may not. But you're not 100% with showing him your breasts, so wait until you are.

this exactly^^^^^^^^

[LouBerry]

There's nothing wrong with experimenting around, but the thing is, after a certain point you can't just go back to holding hands. Make sure you're ready.

[Scotland]

There's nothing wrong with experimenting around, but the thing is, after a certain point you can't just go back to holding hands. Make sure you're ready.

Perfect answer really, just remember once he's seem them once your on another level of relationship, you can never return to the lower levels :)

-Scotland

[Clawhammer]

If you really want to maintain boundaries, this is where it starts. Them teenage male hormones are ruthless.

[unnamed94]

I have a boy I meet 8 weeks ago while working very courteous and fun. Now I am a strong believer of no sex till married or over 18.

dont you have to be 18 to be married?

OT: dont go for it if you dont truly want to. simple as that

[Stronger]

If you feel like things are being rushed, or you feel too uncomfortable, then tell him no; its your body and your choice; that one time could lead to more asking, maybe touching; etc, only do it, if you feel ready and actually want to yourself.

[Lovely637]

That might lead to sex. So I suggest not to do it.