Some f-ed up s***

[War-Is-Real]

omfg!
I am in love with three different people! And they [I don't think] don't like me back! HALP!

[War-Is-Real]

No one! D:

[jegoss02]

sup, me again. none of them? are they your friends or are they your crush?

[War-Is-Real]

They are my friends, but I love them...

[jegoss02]

okay. any more details. why do you love them. is it their bodies. their personalities. are you close friends. all of these things will help you decide if they love you back.

[War-Is-Real]

Personality. I don't think "loving someones body" is love, just being a whore.

[War-Is-Real]

One was a close friend. But...

[jegoss02]

Personality. I don't think "loving someones body" is love, just being a whore.

i agree. that's why i asked. how close are they to you. you hang out? if they are really close and they care for you then they will understand but if you just fell in love with them then you can work on that relationship.

[War-Is-Real]

One is a best friend, one is a friend I trust with really deep secrets, and another one is just a friend, he doesn't talk to me much... I just... UGHHHHHHHHHHH

[jegoss02]

lol. uggghh. i know how it is. i was your age once several years ago. trust me. but if you think you have a shot go for it. i assume they know about your orientation and all since your signature says openly gay. but if really need to know now, go to the one you love the most, start talking to him, privately of course, and say that he is the one of your best friends and tell him how important he is to you. but if it can wait, build up these relations and hag out some more. see if you can drop subtle hints maybe. it might help to know if they are gay or bi or whatever.

[War-Is-Real]

That's my problem
I love them all the same.
I dropped a really big hint on one of them and he took it as a joke.

[jegoss02]

hmmm. like i said. work on the relationship. ive actually helped a lot of people with relationships in my day. especially on her. they obviously dont think of you as that kkind of person. but you can change that in time. youve known them for so many years, now to step it up a notch. "bam". lol. but really work on one relationship or else it ends up as a bad situation. a love quadrilateral. i know you might have these feelings for them but you have make doubly sure and work hard.

[War-Is-Real]

Yeah...
I was dared to kiss one of them [but I chickened out] but I'm just so shy... and no one [IRL] knows that about me... I don't act shy at all, but I'm just so afraid of what will happen... *sits*

[jegoss02]

okay. well. thats the first step. IRL, come out. one friend at a time. your closest one first but dont come onto them until they are okay with it. its a shock. many of my friends came out to me and it was a bit of a suprise but i said once a bro always a bro. its just me though. but thats the first step. and looks and atitude dont count shit for who you are.

[War-Is-Real]

Come out about what, likeing them?

[jegoss02]

Yeah...
I was dared to kiss one of them [but I chickened out] but I'm just so shy... and no one [IRL] knows that about me... I don't act shy at all, but I'm just so afraid of what will happen... *sits*

no. come out for being gay. like you said here IRL no one knows. let them know but dont confess your love to them.that will scare them away

[War-Is-Real]

I meant no one IRL know I'm shy.
I am open.

[War-Is-Real]

Hey man I gtg see you l8er

[jegoss02]

okay. sorry. but no. dont confess love it scares people away.
do this.

choose one (cant help here sorry)

then strengthen that relationship. let that person know how good of a friend he is. tell him secrets (over time of cours)tell him hes your best friend. but work slowly. it takes time to build a bond.

but time is also against you. if you take too log youll miss an oportunity. if you see it take it but follow the golden rule, not too fast.

but over all i think you cant hurt to try and rejection is a part of life. move on.

[jegoss02]

hey. listen, if you need to talk tomorrow, i live in ky and im on central time. iusually get up around noon or so here so whatever time it is there, yeah but i need to get some sleep. i can talk anytime tomorrow. i hope ive helped a little.

[jegoss02]

oh. and if you need a reference its 4:35 am here