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LouBerry
July 29th, 2012, 09:41 PM
When I was six years old, my mother died in a car accident. It's really really hard growing up without a mother in my life and I guess I just want to know how many people have gone through it.

Christheman
July 29th, 2012, 09:47 PM
i have not but i feel so sorry for you

Princess Ariel
July 29th, 2012, 09:48 PM
My father died when I was 5 an my mother never got back in the game.
It is hard, having a parent taken away from you at such a young age.
Feeling as if something's been missing from your life.

If you need anyone, you can message me <3

LouBerry
July 29th, 2012, 11:07 PM
Thank you. And yeah, It's not even that I miss my Mom, because I don't really remember her, it's just that I don't have a Mom. And I will never have someone who can love me like a mother would.

loz4
July 30th, 2012, 03:42 PM
When I was six years old, my mother died in a car accident. It's really really hard growing up without a mother in my life and I guess I just want to know how many people have gone through it.

Me, when I was 4, I don't know, you just sort of get used to having one parent like its normal, what i'd do to have had both parents, but life is life, you deal with it the best you can :) I hope you're okay

LouBerry
July 30th, 2012, 10:46 PM
Well, it's not that I'm not used to it, I mean I've grown up without her and all, but there are just things that you need a mom for. Like, I'll probably grow up to be the worst wife ever lol.

candabear17
July 30th, 2012, 11:40 PM
My dad passed away when I was 8 and my mom was never really the motherly type. I pretty much grew up without any parents :/ it never really gets easier huh?

LouBerry
July 30th, 2012, 11:43 PM
Never. At least it never did for me. I'm a spitting image of my Mom, so I can't really just forget about it. It really sucks, but it makes it better somehow just to hear stories from other people living through it.

candabear17
July 31st, 2012, 12:01 AM
I look like my dad :/ my grandparents hated my dad and I live with them so everyday they bag on him. It'd be fine if I had my own opinion because I could stick by it but I don't remember my dad so I have no clue what to think. One of the things I hate the most though is "what do you parents think?" or "I can't stand my dad/mom"

LouBerry
July 31st, 2012, 12:07 AM
God, I know. I had a best friend growing up who would say she hated her mom everytime they fought. It killed me. I was like, some of us aren't even lucky enough to have one, jerk.

candabear17
July 31st, 2012, 01:00 PM
Then you try to find someone to replace them. Every adult male that I met until I was 10 was "Like a dad to me" even though they actually weren't.

LouBerry
July 31st, 2012, 01:55 PM
Yeah, my dad re-married four times and had a million girlfriends and I always told people that they were my "mother". Now I'm fairly sure that none of them even liked me lol.

journey
July 31st, 2012, 01:59 PM
my mom died when i was 7 and my dad died this year its sad but u havt to go on

LouBerry
July 31st, 2012, 02:02 PM
I'm really sorry. :/ I don't really get along with my dad, but I can't imagine not having him too.