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Ambrosia
July 29th, 2012, 05:26 PM
I'll make this super short in hopes of actually getting replys!

I was once in this sex based relationship with this guy who is in a up and coming band. We only ever talked when he wanted stuff, and we hung out once or twice. I started dating his best friend, he told me he had all these feelings for me and how upset he was about it so we stopped talking. He recently contacted me and told me he missed me and blah blah so I broke up with my boyfriend(I needed to anyways). We did what we used to do once, and now he won't really talk to me again. I know he'll text me when he wants something, like he used to, but this is really shitty. I forgot how much it sucked doing this with him, because I want more from it and he knows it. I feel played, even though I walked right into this, and in all honesty I kind of miss my ex.

Any advice?

FreeFall
July 29th, 2012, 11:20 PM
Get out of it and stop it. He's getting what he wants, you're not.
You want more, he's never going to give it to you. Ever. You're just a booty call to him, that's all.
He told you he had feelings for you in hopes of getting you to break up with the guy you were with. If you're giving it to another guy, how's he going to get any from you? If you miss your ex see if you can get in touch with him but cut out this booty call guy. You'll be trapped in a cycle if you don't.

unnamed94
July 29th, 2012, 11:48 PM
if hes not looking for the same thing than you are, then break it with him. it seems that he is just using you. if you still want something with him then confront him and see if he changes knowing you dont want to come back to the sex based relationship you had.

btw why did you had to end it with your ex? you may just be feeling that you miss him and want him back because of what happened with this other guy. be sure to remember what went wrong with him before you try to get back with him. talk to him and explain him what happened if you do miss him that much.

War-Is-Real
July 29th, 2012, 11:51 PM
Drop 'em like he's hawwt! XD
But seriously, kill the relationship. All he's doing is whoring you.

StoneColdNicky
July 30th, 2012, 02:33 AM
Sounds like you either need to go all in, or not at all.

jegoss02
July 30th, 2012, 02:39 AM
sorry but he played you. drop'em "fool me twice..."