Experimenting with cousin.

[Fine Evo]

Back when I was about 8-9 me and me female 1st cousin experimented. It was only kissing and I didn't know what I was doing, we would hold hands in private and touch each other with clothes on. Sometime when I went in for the kiss she would push me away. Back then when we were staying at our grandmothers house we would sleep in the same bed so it was easy to kiss, especially for privacy. Now to the point, I want to do this again. I don't see her much any more, maybe 2-5 times a year. We are usually never in private. so how do I convince her to do it again. I don't want sex or anything all I want is kissing, touching and maybe oral. I don't need the "your too young" talk. Im turning 14 in a few weeks, so is she. I masturbate everyday, don't know about her. Anyways, sorry if this was long. :wub:

[Scotland]

I might as well be the first to say this .... Doing stuff like this with your cousin is wrong. I get that your horny and probably sexually frustrated ... That's normal, that's part of being a teen, However wanting to kiss and touch up your cousin is wrong. Also if she pulls away or doesn't want to then don't attempt to force her, that's even more wrong.

I get that you just want to experiment but you really should try and find a friend or girlfriend to experiment with, I'm pretty sure if your family found out what you were doing with your cousin they wouldn't be too happy

-Scotland

[Sean4U]

First of all, I'm not the best to say don't fool with a family member, except in this case since you are both opposite sexes, I have to, since that I do think would be in the incest category....yes its normal to get horny even with a cousin...and you probably have been getting hard and thinking all sorts of things but this could definitely cause problems between the two of you....I agree with kiernan, find a gf or someone to experiment with other than your cousin...especially since you are getting the clues that she is not interested...;pushing you away an all....forcing anyone to do what they are not comfortable with is wrong...

[Christheman]

k this is called incest and is frowned upon. dont do it. get a non-relative to kiss or do oral to

[Liam-O]

It is illegal but if you want to do it, think of the consequences. But don't tell anybody you have done it and try not to do it.

[Giles]

To those people that are saying this is illegal, it's actually not. Obviously the underage part of it is, but with regards to incest, in most US states and a lot of countries it's not classed as incest.

[Anyone51]

It is illegal but if you want to do it, think of the consequences. But don't tell anybody you have done it and try not to do it.

Lol not in Australia it isn't it!

[geileramerikaner]

I have done a bit of fantasizing about my girl cousins, but I never acted upon it. It should be avoided to make family dynamics happier.

[Scotland]

I don't think with cousins is illegal, but it's still highly frowned upon and just wrong to be honest...

-Scotland

[FullyAlive]

yeah this topic just really isn't appropriate nor sex ed :locked: